If you act like a bigot, don't be surprised if people think you're a bigot
Kadark said:
I advocate support for children living under substandard conditions, whether or not the child is illegitimate.
Then act like it. By your argument, it would seem to be a secondary consideration at best.
I have come to expect better from a moderator
And I've come to expect better of people who think they should be taken seriously.
Unfortunately, all the articulacy in the world won't change what I said to suit your argument.
My advice to you, sir, would be to pay attention to what people actually say instead of tell them what they believe. When you ignore a point of discussion in order to tell people what they believe, all you accomplish is to remind others of your own bigotry.
See my response to Repo Man:
If you really think that avoiding explicit expression of what is evident in your conduct protects you from certain accusations, you're wrong.
I, for one, am sick of the vicious, seemingly pathological dishonesty of the anti-abortion crowd. I've tolerated it from conservatives most of my life, and the result is that we're still arguing the same useless crap that
they want to dwell on. I am no longer willing to accommodate such bigotry and vice.
If people in your position could offer some genuine reflection on the issue, that would be one thing. But the closest you ever get is when you get cornered and say things like,
"Where did I indicate I felt this way? You've got the wrong impression of me."
—and—
"Please, do not "pull" a Repo Man and falsely accuse me of making questionable statements. I advocate support for children living under substandard conditions, whether or not the child is illegitimate. Why? Duh! It's not the child's fault. I have come to expect better from a moderator, Tiassa."
Expressions of what you genuinely believe should not have to be dragged out of you. And they shouldn't be couched in self-righteousness. If you don't wish to be seen as a bigot, then don't present yourself as one.
Does that confuse you? When you make a point of addressing me in an insulting manner, why should you be offended if I resent it? That routine is
so damn old, Kadark.