actually, we are talking their own bodies, and im not sure why you dont understand this because its really basic.
But no, we're not - and I'm not sure why you don't understand this because it's really quite basic.
if a child isnt a part of a womans body while its in the womb, then what is it?
To all intents and purposes, that child is a 'parasite'. It dwells in the host, feeds off the host, and uses the host to further it's own development. A parasite, a mosquito, or a leech is not a part of your body - even if it decides to use your body to aid it's survival. In the case of parasites, they can and will be removed because of the harm they generally cause, and because as non-humans they don't have any rights whatsoever.
So now we would have to establish whether a fetus is a human. The fact is that it is, in it's very early stages yes - where you wouldn't even recognise it, but a human nonetheless.
where the hell did it come from, she didnt put it in her body
And you dare ask me if I took biology lessons? I wont get down to the 18 rated details but in short the man put it there. Do you have any idea how hard it actually is to get pregnant? You wouldn't think so given the amount of pregnant women around - but it isn't easy.
From gettingpregnant.co.uk
"Ideally you need to have intercourse three days or less before ovulation, so sperm are waiting when the egg is released. Eggs only survive for a maximum of 24-hours - unless they're fertilised. As it's impossible to predict exactly when that precious window will be, take advantage of the fact that sperm can survive for up to four days, and have them already present."
Basically what it comes down to is this: Every woman should go out and buy herself an ovulation predictor, (for a seriously cheap £9.99 at any good chemist). Then all she needs to do is avoid getting laid 4 or so days every month. Problem solved yes? No dead children yes?
Would you honestly prefer all these unwanted children to be killed than just not conceived to begin with? Why argue for the right to abort instead of arguing for the law to force all women to have ovulation predictors?
And so I suggest the compromise: That abortion be made illegal and that women + men combined make the small effort to ensure unwanted pregnancies don't occur. I ask them for 4 days every month, you tell them to kill.
Of course I am aware of circumstances beyond our control, (rapes/condom splits). In the latter I would advise they take up the
free morning after pill, and the former is a much longer story where not only must one understand the position from the mothers side, but that in actuality the child is completely innocent. It's a long debate, and one I shall avoid for now.
so in fact it really is a part of her body in the same way that tumor is a part of your body when you have cancer.
It's nothing like a tumour. It will inhabit the body for 9 months and then it's done. It doesn't generally kill you, although you might suffer some discomfort and for that I'm sure the child will be truly sorry.
the only difference here is that sperm needed to be added to the equation to make it grow, so at the most a fetus is parts of two peoples bodies, fully entitling, as far as im concerned, the two of them to decide what to do with it.
I see.. So you did the duty of ejaculating while your missus did the duty of lying on her back and all of a sudden you have the decision over whether another being lives or dies? Please..
now seriously, in detail, describe to me how a fetus is NOT a part of a womans body while its in the womb because id love to hear it.
The fetus is an inhabitant, not a part of. The fetus will use the host to
ensure it's survival, and it is indeed that fight for survival that gives it the right to survive. We're not talking about candy bars here, but life.. human life. A being that will do whatever it can to ensure it does survive. At no stage in it's development does a fetus wish to die, stop feeding, growing, etc. It can certainly be considered somewhat along the lines of a parasite, but not a part of her.
thats a pointless argument. you didnt borrow space from your mother
But I did. For 9 months I used her to ensure my survival. I fed from her, took all the nutrients and other things that I needed to survive. I might not have been aware that I was using her, but the fact remains that I was. From the very moment of conception, the fight was to survive, not to be exterminated. That is simply undeniable. I used my mother to make that happen. It might be her egg, his sperm - but my life.
you ARE your mother to a certain extent. did you not take biology class in high school? you are your mother and father.
Although I personally fail to see the value of that rather pedantic question, yes I did. But while my genes might have come from them, that doesn't mean I am a part of their body. I am still an individual human being regardless to who made it possible. From the moment of conception I fought to exist. That's all that needs to be said.
you were created by them from matter contained in their bodies and for better or worse, like it or not, while you were in the womb you were a part of your mother's body.
You're wrong. I was an inhabitant of her body fighting for my own survival. While I agree she might not want me inhabiting her body, once there the removal and destruction of me is murder.
its not like renting an apartment.
But it is.
what you should be saying is that your body NO LONGER belongs to your mother after birth at which point you became two distinct, seperate physical beings.
Well that's silly. At just a few months that child will be sucking it's thumb, kicking, crying, moving around and acting upon external influences. Is that not classifiable as a distinctly separate physical being? Sure, it's still inside the woman - but then would you not class a bot fly eating away at the inside of a person as a distinctly separate physical being? Yes, it uses that person to aid it's survival, but to think that it cannot be classed as a distinctly separate physical being until after birth is idiotic.
she doesnt have the right to kill you now, but at some time she had the right to choose to remove something growing in her body that she didnt want there.
Yes, because it is currently legal. That is what we're currently debating about if you didn't notice. She does have the right, but she shouldn't.
my argument wasnt meaningless, you just missed the point of it.
I didn't miss the point of it, you just missed the point of my response. Seriously, can we stop being silly?
i was discussing viability as it relates to how we define a living being.
Living: To be alive; exist
Are you stating that the fetus is dead?
Being: To exist; have life or reality
Are you stating that they do not actually exist, have life, or are real?
Sorry, you were saying about viability?
i was making the point that a fetus isnt a viable life unless it is given help and nurtured for a relatively long period of time.
Again, neither is my grandmother or the mentally ill cripple up the road. I can assure you they still qualify as living beings - although maybe not by your definition. Yes, "viability as it relates to how we define a living being" does include a fetus.
i was making a point about how bringing a child into the world is a far more complex undertaking than you have laid it out to be.
I have children.. do you?
it doesnt just involve some selfish little fetus with a right to live no matter what
But It
does involve some selfish little fetus. It fights from day 1 to survive regardless to your well-being. It takes all the nutrients from you, makes you feel like shit and puke in the morning, without any care whatsoever other than it's own survival. The fact that it clearly wants to survive, gives it the right to survive, or at very least makes the termination of that being murder.
it involves a life altering decision on the part of the parents to actually raise the child once it is born and provide it with a quality of life.
Nobody said raising a child isn't hard work, but it is largely irrelevant to the discussion. A fetus is a living being and as such the termination of that living being is murder of something that clearly wants to survive. Whether changing nappies and breast feeding is a major pain in the ass is of no consequence to anything.
if they are unfit to do so, then they should, in all fairness not bring it into the world that way.
If they are unfit to do so then they should, in all fairness, get it adopted once it's born. The fact that a mother is unfit to properly care for and nurture a child after birth does not change the murder of that child before birth from being anything other than murder.
i understand that you were adopted, but once again, if you add another 1 and 1/4 million kids every year to the adoption pool, what do you think your chances would have been of having a family then?
Population issues are entirely irrelevant to the termination of an unborn human indeed being murder. To fully debate this specific issue however, I could use some statistics regarding annual adoption rates/ annual death rates and so on. You mention 1/4 million kids every year, but fail to mention how many deaths there are per year. Please provide some data.
and consider then, that if you were to have that child and leave it unadopted in a state facility somewhere, the public is forced to pay to support its life, and none of us had a say in that decision, but it becomes our burden as well.
An argument that your taxes would rise is not an argument against abortion being murder, which it is. Much like you I do not want to pay more tax, but that is no call to order the slaughter of the unborn.
theres not just the desire of one being in question when you debate whether abortion is moral or not
But that is the discussion. Once we have worked out whether it is right to kill an unborn child, once we have established whether an unborn child has any say in the matter, and once we have established that an unborn child fights to survive and is classifiable as a living being, then we can move onto the questions of tax raises and the ability to afford nappies.
you are discussing killing already existing people.
So.. a fetus does not exist? It has not made it to the ranks of fully fledged 'person', but it is still a living being with the express goal and right to survive. You are merely arguing semantics. Ok, it can't walk, talk, or operate a computer, but it is still a living being using it's host to ensure its own survival.
you are suggesting publicly sanctioned murder of the elderly and prisoners (a large percentage of the ones you have described here probably being metally ill) because you would rather not have an unwanted pregnancy terminated before its ever become a person?
Most certainly. You purposefully didn't include "paedophiles, rapists, and murderers" that I had included, but it's ok, I forgive you. Earlier you mentioned the money you would have to pay. I might aswell point out that you pay a lot to house and feed those criminals. I would rather spend my money on the deserving, wouldn't you?
that has far worse implications for the moral fabric of society than a legal right to abortion does.
So, (I don't believe I got an answer but if I did I apologise), are you for or against capital punishment?
i wasnt putting forth the idea that things have gotten so bad that now we have to murder people. not only was i not doing that, but i cant believe that you are.
I wasn't. I was stating that if population was such an issue, I would rather see rapists and paedophiles die than unborn children.
as someone who is making an argument opposing abortion because the fetus has potential and no one can judge what its quality of life will be and it cant stick up for itself, doesnt it seem completely antithetical for you to then turn around and argue that we should murder people who can express a desire to live?
For someone who is making an argument saying abortion is ok, doesn't it seem really daft to then refuse to agree that we should murder people who sexually molest young children?
Both have the express desire to live, but one is clearly more deserving. You of course make the assumption that a fetus cannot express a desire to live, when that is all it does.
once again you miss my point.
Once again you missed mine.
how ridiculous is that, look for example at Alexander the Great, he undoubtedly murdered a lot of people, would you have just wanted to kill him because he wasnt innocent,
Alexander the Great, no matter how great he might have been, is completely irrelevant to anything. However, to answer the question: If you take life, then yes.. certainly before taking the life of an innocent "living being" that continually expresses it's desire to live.
however i am confident that had Alexander the Great been aborted, someone would have eventually been born to take his place in history. funny huh.
Whether the next child would have invented coco-pops is of no consequence. You are still taking the life of an innocent "living being" that expresses a desire to live. All the side swipes you take do not defeat or argue against that very simple notion.
so i am completely mistaken then when i read that you were advocating killing the elderly to thin out our population because according to this statement here, you wouldnt want to kill your grandmother would you?
Heartless maybe, but I couldn't honestly care. However, You "missed my point". My statement was that
if population was such a big issue, then it would be better to kill those that were already at the ends of their life or those that spent their lifetime raping young boys and girls than the life of an innocent "living being" that has the express desire to survive. I wasn't stating we should go and kill old people, but merely pointing out, (as you had brought up population issues), that if faced with such a crisis whereby there were no resources or space for anyone, that we can find "living beings" to kill other than unborn ones.
none of your arguments make sense.
That's because you clearly missed the point. (oh how tiresome).
i do not advocate murder.
But you do. You might not consider abortion as 'murder' but it is, given that a fetus is a "living being" with the express desire to survive.
i also have made it clear that i dont consider abortion murder and why i dont think it is.
You did little more than tell me it would cost a lot in taxes, Alexander was cool, and that because it can't walk it has no right to it's own existence. Not much of an argument when you break it down.
if someone decided to kill me now it would be murder. if someone killed your grandmother its murder. if you give a murderer the death penalty, all it is is legal murder. thats how simple it is.
Because all those used in your examples qualify as "living beings" right? So does a fetus.
i was saying that a human that cant survive on its own is in a different category than one that can.
Then surely an unborn child, born child, child under 10, cripple, mentally ill person, and old aged person all fall under the same category?
I am aware of what you can legally do at 18 or 21, but that is completely irrelevant to the argument, and a mere attempt on your part to avoid the issue. By your own standards of argument here, we can happily kill pensioners and cripples because they "do not have the apparatus necessary to decide whether or not that choice impacts them negatively".
im saying it is one choice among many that people should be able to make for themselves.
Yes, and the fetus - that shows express desire to live, and is classifiable as a "living being", should have that choice.
say i am a poor single woman living in new york city. the man who got me pregnant is nowhere to be found. carrying my child to term and giving birth to it will cause me to have to be absent from work for one week.
Look, you can fart around with poor young, my husband left me, women scenarios all you like. That does not in any way change the issue, or argue for your side. There is still no excuse to murder an innocent "living being" that has the express desire to survive. Ok, you're a poor trampy lady who cannot look after the child - get it adopted. It has no weight or bearing on abortion.