S.A.M.: There is something very wrong with this system of values
Hmm. How so? Which values are you referring to?
Sam: He should be informed. If he wants the child and the mother does not, there should be some conditions under which he has that right, women should be equally culpable for protection. If he doesn't want the child and the mother does, he should not have to pay for maintenance. Or at least, should have the choice to say no.
Like what? Are you saying that she should be legally forced to deliver a baby she doesn't want? Carry it for nine months undergoing all the health risks involved? She's not a surrogate mother. What if she had slept with him once and they are not even really too emotionally involved? Are you also going to demand she breast milk it also?
Sam: All of the above of course, do not apply to coercive or forced sex and require consenting adults. In the case of the 15 year old, I think the parents should have some options, because the child and the childs child is their responsibility. I am not sure I like the idea of 15 year olds having such ease of access to abortions. If you don't want to get pregnant the time to think about that is before having sex.
The child is their responsibility but the child's child is her responsibility. There are many families that would refuse to support an underage child who is pregnant and you can't force them. Also it is psychologically cruel to force someone to have a child for someone else when its not what they want. I would go further to say that the rage and stress involved in such a scenario (pregnancy is rough even when you want it). I doubt it would be healthy for the child and you don't have any proof that she would actually go about doing all the pre-natal care stuff that is needed to have a healthy child. Its all good and well to say that one should think about things before having sex but in life we make mistakes. I believe that in a humane secular society abortion is a right that every woman should have access to no matter what peter, paul or mary would have to say about it.