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I actually enjoy your posts.
90% of the time, I find them insightful and enjoyable. 9% of the time I find them educational.
1% of the time I may or may not feel mildly disturbed..
You know what I'm beginning to think? I'm starting to think that for many men the real problem with abortion is the woman's control over their seed. The fact that she can flush it down the drain and he has no control. I mean why are some men so vehemently against abortion really? Its that their wives and girlfriends can get rid of their seed and they may not even know about it. I don't think its conscious though.
"Male heterosexual responsibility," according to Richard Newman, "should begin with the realization that once we fertilize the egg -- unless we have agreed beforehand with our partner on the consequences -- what happens thereafter is beyond our control." Newman wrote an controversial article in Changing Men, a feminist men's movement journal, in which he made the argument that men have no rights concerning unintended pregnancies, and that men therefore must make decisions about procreation before engaging in sexual activity.
And Bells looksie here
There have been very few studies done on the effects of abortion on men, and what few there are seem to disagree as to whether men are affected or not. A number of studies, however, point to the fact that men often experience depression, guilt, anger, grief, and shame after their partner has an abortion, feelings commonly experienced by the woman herself. In the aftermath of abortion, particularly where the feelings around the decision to abort are ambivalent, men often feel depressed and when they have not been consulted about the decision, they often feel angry about being legally disenfranchised.
http://www.deveber.org/text/chapters/Chap16.pdf
And there are all these conservative religious men's groups like "Reclaiming Fatherhood" where they organize around abortion.
Paul Cole leads the Christian Men's Network, which specializes in mentoring men. He says many abortions happen because of men who refuse to step up and father the lives they've created.
http://www.cbn.com/cbnnews/us/2013/June/Man-Up-Men-Urged-to-End-Abortions-War-on-Women/
That I found interesting because it assumes many woman would keep or abort a child based on whether a man steps up or not. It doesn't consider that a woman may still not want a child even if the man is willing to be there as a father or husband. Of course sometimes that is the case.
From Bro's Against Abortion
"Men, it’s time to man up. There is a new movement in America, and it’s called “bro-life.”Women have long been allowed to talk about abortion. But for men – the topic has been taboo.
Abortion advocates silence men from speaking out against the greatest human rights violation of our time. They claim men – more specifically, pro-life men - cannot speak about abortion because “it’s not their bodies and not their choice.”
On this site a man speaks of his suffering after his ex girlfriend had an abortion.
"11 years ago my girlfriend at the time told me she was pregnant, but because she already had one fatherless child and I was a drunk and an addict she told me she was going to abort the baby. I was not practicing my faith back then but I knew it was wrong. I fought for her to keep the baby but in the end I gave up.Eventually we split up, I went to rehab and straightened out my life and found myself working in youth ministry, all by God's grace. I thought my life was pretty good. But there was something missing. Although I had a lot of joy in my life I felt like there was an emptiness in me that I couldn't fill. A few years ago I was driving home, listening to our local Catholic radio station and there was a man talking about abortion. I can't remember his name or much of what he said, but the one thing I can remember was that he spoke about how men suffer from abortion too. At that moment I realized what the emptiness in my own life had been, it was the loss of my child, the child I gave up on years before."
http://lifeteen.com/men-and-abortion/
Geez. He's probably more broken up about it than the woman who went through it. Notice how he speaks of him "giving it up" and the emptiness he feels? Its like he's going through couvade syndrome except for abortion. LOL Male Sympathetic Pregnancy gone haywire. I've never once met a woman who claimed to feel empty after having an abortion. Relief yes, emptiness no.
There are many women who are against abortion too of course but I think it may come from a different place, psychologically speaking. What are your thoughts?
Roman law allowed induced abortions but regulated it in consideration of the biological father. Emperor Septimius Severus ruled circa 211 AD that a woman who had an abortion without consent from her husband should face exile for having bereaved her husband of children. In his speech Pro Cluentio, delivered in 66 BC, Cicero refers to a case he had heard of in which a woman from Miletus was sentenced to death for having aborted her pregnancy, upon receiving bribes from those who stood to inherit her husband's estate if he produced no heir. Cicero said that in doing so she had "destroyed the hope of the father, the memory of his name, the supply of his race, the heir of his family, a citizen intended for the use of the republic". A 4th century BC Greek writer from Alexandria, Egypt, Sopater, quoted the lawyer Lysias, who had referred to a trial in Athens in which a man named Antigene accused his wife of having deprived him of a son by having an abortion.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paternal_rights_and_abortion