water said:But only if the person in question is beautiful enough to be loved.
I cannot count on anyone to love me, ever.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and is totally subjective. It is you who is putting contraints on the potential for romance by quoting something totally subjective as an absolute barrier. No one can count on anyone to love them, abused or not abused. It is not a right to be romantically pursued no matter what you look like.
peace
c20