Wimpish Society

I don't think one can measure the overall "peace" in the world by just the numbers of dead people!

Sure we can. That is the only way to compare objectively today's world and 200-500-1000 years ago.

So if 500 years ago let's say 1% of all humans died of violent death annually because of wars and today it is only .03%, then today's world is way more piecefull. Ebd of story...

Just think about the weaponry in existence today. And still so far the world has survived 6+ decades without another world war. And the casualties sure would be counted in millions not in a few thousands..
 
You have no common sense if you believe the past was somehow better than now because people had less protection.

Not sure how you think that. Do you think its good for the overall benefit of society to have to put a helmet on your 3 year old when you go tobagoning?
Instead of just going to a smaller hill ?(This is the law they want to pass in Ontario Canada )

I do agree in general that things improve as you go, but i believe in this day and age we may actually see a decline , since too many people are getting use to someone else being there always to help and protect them.(I'm talking about adults) You know, you slip on a big patch of ice , you sue the landlord of the building, instead of looking ahead, and maybe avoiding the ice. But i guess that would only be common sense.
 
The wimp factor is increasing exponentally. Worse, the wimps seem to be in control of the government.

We've got idiots in California trying to ban spanking. They're talking about making it illegal to smoke in your own car or house if children are present. Children must be use booster seats to age 13 despite the fact that there is no proof booster seats provide any additional protection over normal seatbelts.

We have schools banning games of tag, dodgeball, all forms of competition. They claim losing is bad for children's self esteem. Of course true self respect comes from overcoming adversity, not from being shielded from anything offensive your entire childhood.

What happens when these hothouse porcelin dolls hit the real world? Nothing good.
 
If you try to ban spanking, you should be spanked yourself, and see how long you hold to your belief. ........................See , it works!!!!!
 
What happens when these hothouse porcelin dolls hit the real world? Nothing good.[/QUOTE]


I do agree. Kids nowadays will get a hard lesson in real life, causing much more harm than good because they have no idea what its like.
 
We have schools banning games of tag, dodgeball, all forms of competition. They claim losing is bad for children's self esteem. Of course true self respect comes from overcoming adversity, not from being shielded from anything offensive your entire childhood.

LOL! OMG, I almost fell out of my seat laughing when I read that. I had not heard that one before. That is absolutely pathetic. What are those dumbasses thinking???? Do they not give it a thought that losing might motivate them to better themselves? It gives them a goal to strive for. I have raced bicycles for years and losing never stopped me. It just gave me a higher goal to strive for.

What happens when these hothouse porcelin dolls hit the real world? Nothing good.

Exactly!!! Do the idiots not think that they are going to be exposed to some serious competition in the real world. :rolleyes:

Man. I can't wait to see what they are going to be like in 20 years. :)
 
How can you say that we've learned to make peace, when there's more conflicts, more violence, more wars, between diverse peoples now all over the world than ever before in the history of mankind?
For a smart guy you are either woefully innumerate because of an odd vector in your education, or you just like to affect innumeracy the way you like to affect curmudgeonliness. Everything you just said is simply incorrect. Deaths and injuries and even destruction of property due to deliberate acts of violence by groups--including governments--have been on a steady decline since V-J Day. Even before that, the periods of peace between the wars kept growing longer.
That is a vision of a perfect society, but the problem here is that the limbic system still composes part of the human brain causing instincts to surface in everyday life. No matter what we do to try and curb this, short of genetic engineering or evolution, primitive instincts are going to be here.
You're only half right. The forebrain of Homo sapiens is so big that it gives us an (arguably) unique ability among all animals: the ability to override our instincts with learned and reasoned behavior. We learn that the practice of learned and reasoned behaviors such as deferred gratification and situational ethics yields risk/reward and pleasure/pain ratios that satisfy the primitive in us, and the primitive with his time-sense learns that the tradeoff is not merely satisfactory but superior to that gained from purely instinctive behavior.
So we try and raise a boy to adulthood with the more "civilized" values. What happens when they encounter alpha males in society?
For the goddess's sake, Iron John, we don't shoot you! Isn't that good enough for you? That testosterone haze you jocks walk around in distracts you from your wits and we simply outwit you without having to resort to violence. We let you think you've come out on top because you have the biggest office and the sexiest car and the longest work week and the most dysfunctional family and we're all happy.
Even in the corporate world, which is what I am in, it is survival of the fittest. I wouldn't be where I am if I had been the "civilized" male and not fought for everything I believe in.
Yes, and haven't we seen what your style of "corporate world" has wrought. The Industrial Era is over, and not a moment too soon, since there's still enough rain forest to recover and we can still clean the air up. A new generation of kids who are getting prosperous (rather than filthy rich) by writing software at home, "manufacturing" products one by one with CAD/CAM, and not spending one fourth of their time commuting, is taking over. You'd better adapt to their world or get out of their way.
It has even been proven that humans still exhibit the same instincts as we did thousands of years ago, just in different manners. For instance, the Discovery Channel had a show on sexual attraction then and now. The same thing takes place today. Men use money and power in today's society to attract a mate. That has replaced the hunter/gatherer, yet it's the same instinct.
I love it when you butch guys see the data but can't quite do the reasoning. That's exactly what I'm talking about: overriding instinctive behavior with learning and reasoning. This is a vast improvement over beating each other with clubs. Not to mention the mates you get that way are not the ones we're competing for. My wife has an M.A. in English, tutors immigrants, breeds and hand-feeds baby parrots, and once ran a teddy bear collectors's club with me. She has about as much use for a corporate cookie as I do.
Talking about schools, a person I used to mountain bike with told me about the most pathetic incident in the school system I have heard about. He was a music teacher and had two eighth grade students that failed his class due to not caring and not trying. He gave them F's. The principle came to him and said to pass them with C's because of the no child left behind crap. He refused because he had tried to help and encourage them with no success. He told the principle no that they did not deserve it. She fired him over this and he was glad to be gone.
As I already said, this too shall pass. It's a social experiment, it's failed, and by using learned and reasoned behavior America shall move past it.
I don't think one can measure the overall "peace" in the world by just the numbers of dead people!
I suppose not but its a good barometer. Just exactly what gauge do you read to indicate that we're worse off today than we were in 1943 or the middle of the Civil War? Or during the Inquisition or the Dark Ages or being slaves under the "glorious" Roman Empire?
Conflicts all over the world between various peoples, even if it doesn't result in great numbers of deaths, is a very disruptive, and often a very costly, force against this thing we call "civilization".
The conflicts we have today are not as disruptive as the ones of previous generations. The metastasis of Islam into Egypt destroyed an entire civilization. The metastasis of Christianity into the Americas destroyed two more. Those are pretty hard to beat.
Sure we can. That is the only way to compare objectively today's world and 200-500-1000 years ago. So if 500 years ago let's say 1% of all humans died of violent death annually because of wars and today it is only .03%, then today's world is way more peaceful. End of story.
Max has a good point. Death is not the only misery. Nonetheless disease, homelessness, separation of families, destruction of cultures--all of which are grievous byproducts of war--are also on the wane.
The wimp factor is increasing exponentally. Worse, the wimps seem to be in control of the government. We've got idiots in California trying to ban spanking. They're talking about making it illegal to smoke in your own car or house if children are present. Children must be use booster seats to age 13 despite the fact that there is no proof booster seats provide any additional protection over normal seatbelts. We have schools banning games of tag, dodgeball, all forms of competition. They claim losing is bad for children's self esteem.
I've addressed your concerns in my previous posting. Children are no longer dying of polio and influenza, so their lives appear even more precious than ever, so parents wrap them in baby carriages made like little Volvos.
Of course true self respect comes from overcoming adversity, not from being shielded from anything offensive your entire childhood. What happens when these hothouse porcelin dolls hit the real world? Nothing good.
Yes, and as I said in the other thread, these consequences are already being seen and people are waking up to them. A generation of overprotected babies first becomes obese due to lack of exercise, then hits adolescence and starts taking every crazy risk they can find.

The failure of this experiment is becoming widely known and it will soon stop.

"Learned and reasoned behavior" and all that. We are capable of correcting our mistakes. Sometimes a generation gets lost in the process. It's better than losing them to war.
 
Today's society has gotten to be such a "wimpish" existence. I hear all the time on how horrible the Iraqi conflict is. I don't agree with it in the least and I sure don't like seeing Americans dying for nothing, but my point is a few soldiers are killed in a conflict and society has a conniption. In past wars, a few soldiers dying was nothing, compared to the thousands that were killed. I can't imagine how society would react if there was a battle like Gettysburg where tens of thousands were killed in a few days.

Another thing I see is how children are being raised. My God, some of the crap parents yell about is pathetic. One instance is where a lot of schools are now banning games such as dodge ball and swings because kids have gotten hurt. Big deal! We got hurt growing up. The wound healed and we went on. It is so pathetic that it is laughable. I'll probably live just past the mid-part of this century and I can't imagine what those generations are going to be like. :rolleyes:

I partly agree about the Iraq war comments because those deaths are not only horribly unproductive, the war itself is horribly negative in value.

I completely agree with the second paragraph because children need those activities that are somewhat physically risky. A normal child has high energy that can only safely be expended through play. Forbidding them to play makes them a greater danger to each other and hurts them psychologically. In fact, adversity to risk is probably the most psychologically damaging trait that a child can be forced to acquire.
 
Forbidding them to play makes them a greater danger to each other and hurts them psychologically. In fact, adversity to risk is probably the most psychologically damaging trait that a child can be forced to acquire.

Well said and i dont think anyone can argue this fact anymore. thanks MetaKron
 
not to mention cowtowing to the demands of small, but vocal, special-interest groups.

Baron Max

like the arms manufacturers.
Show of hands:
who thinks wimps have the presidents ear? Thank you.
who thinks arms manufacturers have the president's ears? Thank you.

And since you guys think there are so many wimps
which of these two groups is the small but vocal one?


Overpowered by the wimps again?
quit whining.
 
OK, here are the symptoms of quarter-life crisis, you guys tell me how many comes from growing up a whiny-pussy because your parents overprotected you:

Emotional aspects

Characteristics of this crisis are:
feeling "not good enough" because one can't find a job that is at his/her academic/intellectual level
frustration with relationships, the working world, and finding a suitable job or career
confusion of identity
insecurity regarding the near future
insecurity regarding present accomplishments
re-evaluation of close interpersonal relationships
disappointment with one's job
nostalgia for university or college life
tendency to hold stronger opinions
boredom with social interactions
financially-rooted stress
loneliness
desire to have children
a sense that everyone is, somehow, doing better than you

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quarter-life_crisis
 
The quarter-life crisis is the first awakenings of the whiny-pussy generation. After leaving college and living REAL life for the first time, they suddenly get realize that life isn't what it used to be. And they simply just can't cope with the cruelty, hardness of everyday life.

The second awakenings will come (and I hope I am wrong but I seldom are) when the whole world gets in a big mess, be it a world war or a worldwide disease or depression. Then these whiny-pussy kids gonna get floored and comit suicede in mass...

The good news is,that it is all their stupid parents' fault...
 
Well, i see you are a bunch of demented hardasses. I don't agree with the spanking bit. It just condones physical violence. I'm not going to argue about it, that is just my stand on the matter period. Being "whiny-pussy" isn't just a result from overprotection, it can be a result of other types of reinforcement such as expecting to get everything your way, believing failure or second place is never an option, sometimes even a superiority complex etc. In short, an unrealistic view of life.

Even though banning cigarette smoking with your kids in the car SHOULD FUKING DEFINITELY be enforced, some things just fuking can't! I don't know what kind of an idiot would use an example of slipping on the ice, everyone looks where they are going the best they can but sometimes it is a result of the landlord's negligence in keeping up grounds etc. Every situation is different but i agree some people expect others to take responsibility for their own negligence. Everybody is gotta do their share but protection is also one of them. Why would anyone mock safety precautions or the effort to try to make things better is actually assinine.

Children should be allowed to play, exercise and be free but not put themselves in stupid foolhardy danger. Should we go back to building jungle gyms on concrete so they can get a concussion if they fall? Rawrrr!! Tough! duh.duh.

Why don't we stop giving vaccinations because that's wimpy. Don't go to the hospital when you are dying because that's wimpy. Stand on the railroad tracks so you can test yourself against an oncoming subway train. Drive drunk and don't wear a seat belt so we can see how many deadly bumpercar fiascos will occur naturally to prove what? who can doge better. stupid idiots. Sleep in the snow because your warm bed makes you a wimp ad nauseum.

Everybody is whiny-pussy about something mutherfukers.
 
Iam, there is a point after which trying to make things more safe is not worth it and becomes destructive. It was back in 1970 when the so-called teachers at my school banned touch football because someone might get hurt. What the hell? This was an obvious part of the progression to banning all playground games.

There is a difference between making things safer and making things so that we can't enjoy life anymore. I might be safe from being run over by a car if I never leave the house but it isn't a life worth protecting. Being safe is insisting that a car have good tires and brakes and be in good working order, not banning cars as being inherently dangerous.
 
The wimp factor is increasing exponentally. Worse, the wimps seem to be in control of the government.

We've got idiots in California trying to ban spanking. They're talking about making it illegal to smoke in your own car or house if children are present. Children must be use booster seats to age 13 despite the fact that there is no proof booster seats provide any additional protection over normal seatbelts.

We have schools banning games of tag, dodgeball, all forms of competition. They claim losing is bad for children's self esteem. Of course true self respect comes from overcoming adversity, not from being shielded from anything offensive your entire childhood.

What happens when these hothouse porcelin dolls hit the real world? Nothing good.

You have to insist that a little potential danger is a normal part of life and you have a right to it. I was one of the wimps, by the way, and I resent that kind of attempt at "protection" because it took away any chance that I may have had for a life that more resembled a normal life. We really were better off with a lot of the "dangerous" things like a tiger in someone's back yard, ponds or swimming pools without fences, bonfires, maybe even exposed electrical wiring.

We need to recognize that these people who would control what we do, how we express ourselves, and what we can own are hurting us worse than the dangers that they pretend to want to protect us from. We need to recognize that the wimp patrols are the danger that we need protection from.
 
LIfe itself is dangerous day in and out. That's why when you watch the news people are dying of something, it just can't be stopped but alleviated to some degree. Nothing is completely preventable. But the only people searching for trouble are wimps themselves ironicly not those who are actually AWARE of the dangers. Both extremists of censorship of activities and those who disregard safety are both wimps actually, lol. Interesting ain't it. Life throws enough curveballs no matter what precautions are in place.
 
I don't think of it as fatalism to decide that "shit happens." I think of it as an acceptance of the potential consequences of active participation in life.
 
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