why do women do this?

what do you all think...

  • You blew it. She aint gonna pick up your next call.

    Votes: 6 21.4%

  • You probably did something wrong while getting it on...

    Votes: 7 25.0%

  • She cared about you and didn't wanna appear trashy.

    Votes: 10 35.7%

  • Maybe she was on her period and did not wanna say it.

    Votes: 9 32.1%

  • She was testing you, you should have said good night after kissing her.

    Votes: 5 17.9%

  • It was a first date, take it slow next time.

    Votes: 22 78.6%
  • Total voters
    28
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chris4355

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amazingly hot bombshell date

talked for hours

pay for dinner

get to her place

drink, makeout

move towards the bed only to hear her say "no, im not ready yet"

BAH!

But something really odd happened after she said that... I started respecting her more instead of thinking of her as a one time date lay, I mean she was really chill and told me to take it slow, and instead of getting pissed or annoyed, I thought, wow, she actually has self respect... I kinda like her.

Still, I was left with a severe case of blue balls, but its nothing a porno can't treat.

Anyways, she told me she likes to take it slow, and call her next week sometime...
 
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chris4355 said:
amazingly hot bombshell date

talked for hours

pay for dinner

get to her place

drink, makeout

move towards the bed only to hear her say "no, im not ready yet"

BAH!

But something really odd happened after she said that... I started respecting her more instead of thinking of her as a one time date lay, I mean she was really chill and told me to take it slow, and instead of getting pissed or annoyed, I thought, wow, she actually has self respect... I kinda like her.

Still, I was left with a severe case of blue balls, but its nothing a porno can't treat.

Anyways, she told me she likes to take it slow, and call her next week sometime...
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If all you are wanting is sex then just rent a prostitute for an hour or two.

If you really like someone you will honor their wishes and do as they ask without asking why.

Relationships develop through time not over a dinner and drinks. :itold:
 
depending on the kind of girl she is its more likely to be a good thing than bad. i wouldn't be worried.
 
Was this a first date?
If this is a first date, can you tell me why you are surprised that she said she wasn't ready yet? It says volumes about the girls you've went out on dates with in the past if that's the case.
 
S.A.M. said:
Men have no idea how to romance women anymore, do they?
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That's part of the problem! We should have kept it like it was in the days of the cave man ....knock her in the head with club, drag her into the cave, fuck her brains out, then kick her ass out of the cave! The natural way of things ....and stupid fuckin' liberals fucked it all up for the rest of us!

Baron Max
 
Baron Max said:
That's part of the problem! We should have kept it like it was in the days of the cave man ....knock her in the head with club, drag her into the cave, fuck her brains out, then kick her ass out of the cave! The natural way of things ....and stupid fuckin' liberals fucked it all up for the rest of us!

Baron Max
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u forgot the bit where she cooks for you
 
I am assuming that the OP doesn't want this to be a long term thing.

That or maybe my assumptions are wrong. Some girls that I meet I would rather get it over with... but then there are some that you wouldn't mind waiting for, like taking it slow and enjoying the development of an actual mutual relationship.

But yeah, if its one of the former types, you should get it over with in 3 dates, otherwise she'll get attached.
 
Algernon said:
I am assuming that the OP doesn't want this to be a long term thing.

That or maybe my assumptions are wrong. Some girls that I meet I would rather get it over with... but then there are some that you wouldn't mind waiting for, like taking it slow and enjoying the development of an actual mutual relationship.

But yeah, if its one of the former types, you should get it over with in 3 dates, otherwise she'll get attached.
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Then the OP needs to stop approaching this like a jackass and let his intentions be known. If he is out to dupe a woman into sex, I have no further respect for him, no sympathy for him and nothing else to say to him.
 
mikenostic said:
Then the OP needs to stop approaching this like a jackass and let his intentions be known. If he is out to dupe a woman into sex, I have no further respect for him, no sympathy for him and nothing else to say to him.
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lol. Yeah, I don't think I have the heart to use a girl that way. I guess I've grown out of that phase in my life, and I'd rather have a good conversation or get to know a girl better through a date rather than getting in bed with her. You learn a lot more about people when you aren't trying to get them to do something for you, and the emotional and mental benefits are even more rewarding.
 
Seems like you have a second date

My advise would be to go back and give her either flowers or roofies

It's your choise
 
lol. She led me on. Offered me drinks at her place, and then said no in the heat of it.

Its different if I asked for it right away, I was not planning on it. Me being a 22 year old guy, I aint saying no to it if its offered on a first date. Sorry, I like having fun.

S.A.M. said:
Men have no idea how to romance women anymore, do they? :(
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how do you like to be romanced SAM?
 
chris4355 said:
lol. She led me on. Offered me drinks at her place, and then said no in the heat of it.
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Ahhhhh...then this changes things up a bit. I'd back off a bit and get some reaction distance and keep an eye on how she acts over the next few days.

Its different if I asked for it right away, I was not planning on it. Me being a 22 year old guy, I aint saying no to it if its offered on a first date. Sorry, I like having fun.
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I'm 36 and even I aint sayin no to it if it's offered to me on a first date.
But if a girl does sleep with you on a first date, while I don't think that automatically labels her as a slut, you can almost guarantee that she does have some sort of mental issue going on up there, so be wary of dating any girl that does sleep with you on the first date (not saying don't date her, but just be watchful of her behavior).
 
mikenostic said:
Ahhhhh...then this changes things up a bit. I'd back off a bit and get some reaction distance and keep an eye on how she acts over the next few days.


I'm 36 and even I aint sayin no to it if it's offered to me on a first date.
But if a girl does sleep with you on a first date, while I don't think that automatically labels her as a slut, you can almost guarantee that she does have some sort of mental issue going on up there, so be wary of dating any girl that does sleep with you on the first date (not saying don't date her, but just be watchful of her behavior).
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To be honest with you I tend to stay away from the ones that put out to easily, not because I think its wrong to have sex with someone you just met, just because a girl who sleeps with a lot of men has a much higher chance of getting and STD...

Its just hard to say no when you don't expect it...

I don't think its a mental issue for a girl to sleep on her first date, I just think some women think of sex as something very personal, while others just want to have as much of it as possible.
 
The only girls I have known that were willing to put out on the first date had either mental issues, were promiscuous, or just got out of a long term relationship and maybe looking for a rebound or vulnerable.
 
Sometimes a date and a meal is just that: an enjoyable evening out in good company (assuming that you are good company, of course :p)
 
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