Human beings can be deeply effected and or mentaly wounded when they believe their short life will cease to be one day forever. it has been well documented and known for a very long time that humans take death very seriously. One of the typical atheist stances is to sweep the subject under the rug and try your hardest to get on with life and not think about your mortal death.
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M*W: I think you misunderstand atheists and what they believe. The fact is that we are all alive now and, at some point, each of us will die. Not a pretty picture, but the truth. There is no need to worry about death. It's gonna happen whether we fret about it or not.
Humans do take death seriously. It marks a finality to one's existence. So to say that atheists "sweep the subject of death under the rug," is not the case at all. We accept death as a normal and expected part of life. You make it sound like atheists as a group are all in denial of death. I think it tends to be the opposite. Those who fear death sweep it under the rug, and I ask, what are they afraid of?
It is not very complicated it is quite simple, that's a big reason why elderly people get very grumpy and cold hearted, they know the time is nearly up and it effects there everyday life sometimes to serious degrees. Humans do not wish to give up the life they have been given so soon, it can make people very bitter and resentful knowing the life they have will be taken from them and there is nothing they can do to stop it.
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M*W: Elderly people tend to get "grumpy and cold-hearted," because they are old and likely sick or just plain worn out. I don't think it has anything to do with their life about to come to an end that makes them cranky.
Many people who do not have faith in an afterlife will sometimes turn to science hoping there will someday be a way to increase there lifespan or give them immortality. This is one reason why some people might see science as a type of brotherhood or cult, something they can put faith in to save them and the loved ones that surround them, when death and immortality is concerned it can sway people to form groups of brotherhoods searching and aiming for a thing to save them from death.
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M*W: I don't see the point in believing in an afterlife. That only gives
false hope which is perpetuated often by their religions.
Science as a type of membership in a "brotherhood" to save one from death (not likely) is an odd thing to say. There are some science fanatics who have their heads frozen for posterity in the hopes they'll be coming back. For now, there's not much hope in that direction, but who knows what will be scientific fact in another couple of millenia? For the immediate future, we are all subject to mortality.
Atheists can turn very bitter without hope, I don't blame them not everybody is strong enough to be happy and nice while deep down thinking they are forever doomed to be dead and non existent. when confronted by a person who has hope and faith in god and an afterlife it can trigger a nasty jelous fueled reaction towards the theist. There are many excuses to defend your bitterness but I can see through the guises.
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M*W: Atheists are atheists, because it was a conscious choice on our part. No one forced us to be atheists. In fact, that is something impossible to do. It is our choice. Therefore, I don't understand why you think atheists are bitter. We're not in the business of trying to fool ourselves that there is any kind of hope at surviving death! That is the hope of theists. In fact, believers hope there is a god or something greater than themselves to save them from their demise or at least give them a comfy place to believe they go to when they're dead. That is false hope. Atheists just don't feel that way. Atheists just don't have that "doomed" feeling. I am taking a liberty here of speaking for all, and I apologize to those who are of some other belief. The finality of life for atheists is not in death but in reason. There is no loss of hope, no bitterness, no tomorrow. It is what it is, and atheists see death for what it is.
I think you are putting your own feelings and thoughts on death on atheists. I also think there is a smidgen of atheism in each of us, even if some theists don't understand it. I've always been curious about religious folk crying their hearts out at funerals. Even their bible tells them to rejoice. I guess it's mainly because they feel the loss of a loved one, but if they really believed in their god, you'd think they would at least express some happiness for their journey. If there were a god, death needn't been the end. Thus far, no one has come back and told us otherwise.