I mean, seriously. There is absolutely zero legal basis for that statement.
Exactly, there is zero legal basis for compelling a business owner to recognize something the law does not.
When a person is refused service, the only question of legal import is why the service was refused. In this case, service was refused because the customer was gay. That's it. There's nothing more to the story. It doesn't matter if they're holding a polygamous wedding or a gay one, the legal status of the union is irrelevant. The event is still real, the customer is still real, and the basis for refusing service is not legally valid.
Just keep repeating that in the hopes that your proclamations eventually make it true. A specific service was refused. A service that would have been refused any customer, minority or not, leaving all other services equally available, even to a lesbian. That is the definition of equality. You are just making up a "basis for refusing service" that seems to serve an agenda and is not objectively supportable by facts in the real world.
Legally, it has no significance. But again, this is just a red herring. It ultimately doesn't matter what its legal status is.
It does if you expect to enforce a business owner's recognition where the law does not.
Marriage (also called matrimony or wedlock) is a social union or legal contract between people called spouses that establishes rights and obligations between the spouses
A wedding is a ceremony to initiate a "social union or legal contract ... that establishes rights and obligations". You cannot establish enforceable rights and obligations apart from the law, so by definition, marriage is a legal matter. So "wedding" is defined by the law, regardless of what you would like. In Oregon, any ceremony for same-sex couples cannot be the initiation of a marriage, hence not a wedding.
A wedding cake is a real thing. It has attributes that make it different from other cakes. A gay wedding cake doesn't exist, because it does not have attributes inherent to it that make it different from a "straight" wedding cake. Just as there's no such thing as a "black" wedding cake, or an "Asian" wedding cake. A wedding cake is a wedding cake is a wedding cake.
Aside from bride and groom figures on top, a wedding cake is only a very ornate cake. What definitely makes it a wedding cake is its use in a wedding (the reason for applying the typical bride and groom figures that inherently distinguish it as a wedding cake, as well as a "straight" wedding cake). There are actually Asian themed wedding cakes and black bride and groom cake toppers as well, so yes, there are inherent attributes that can distinguish all of these.
So again, if "gay" is not a valid distinction then neither is "wedding", and by Oregon law, which defines marriage, these two distinctions are not compatible.
You said that the bakery was refuse to be "an accomplice," and employed the straw man of me saying the bakery isn't allowed to avoid participating in crimes. At best, you were equivocating on the term "illegal" so as to make gay marriage as "dangerous" a proposition as actually participating in a crime. Honestly, you should have just let me believe you were ignorant, because ignorance is forgivable. This kind of sleazy tactic isn't.
Do I even need to address the question? Gay marriage isn't a crime, so there's no comparing it to something that the bakery could get in trouble for.
Wow, you seem to have intentionally left anything out of your quote of my post that would have precluded you from making this straw man. Namely:
"Illegal is not necessarily a crime (a word I used as a bit of rhetoric), but it is definitely prohibited to issue a same-sex marriage license."
I never said anything about the bakery getting in trouble for providing a wedding cake to a gay couple, nor did I imply it. You need to learn to distinguish your own inference from what is actually implied. But that would not serve as the fallacious appeal to ridicule you seem to have intended.
Aside from being terribly insulting, it's irrelevant. The legal standing of their marriage is irrelevant.
I'm finished with this. I'm starting to think you're only continuing this argument so you have an excuse to exercise some of these insults to gay marriage, such as calling it a farce, and likening it to children playing make-believe. I'm done reading your bigoted bullshit.
Without legal ratification, this so-called "marriage" is nothing more than an unenforceable promise or even just a public profession of feelings. It serves only as display. It is a farce, as it is a legally "empty ... proceeding, or situation".
You simply like to call people bigots who can manage to be objective about an issue you are obviously invested in.