nope that is not what i am saying..i am a guy..and i do not have a problem with the women working and me in the kitchen,,although i do beleive it takes two incomes to make it nowadays..
i am not trying to make this an issue of womens rights..i am saying in a marriage both parties are obligated to serve the others sexual needs, of course this assumes that either party would have a problem with the other sleeping around on them, if you do not want your partner 'cheating' on you, then yes you are responsible for their sexual needs.
this also does not speak to communication in a marriage,as some couples are fine with their partners having sex with other ppl, i think this is a matter of communication.but even in this each partner is obligated to fullfill their partners sexual interests, even if that means giving them permission to sleep around..IOW communicate you do not have a problem with your partner sleeping with others..