Fraggle Rocker
Staff member
Good for you! Just remember that every relationship is unique; there's no formula. The only standard is that you treat each other with respect, kindness and honesty, and when you're alone and reviewing the relationship, you find it satisfying. Of course any endeavor has its share of doubts, but they should not overwhelm and preoccupy you.So, I've started seeing someone.
There have been couples who put mats down in their living room and padding on the walls and spend the evening tossing each other around in martial arts practice... then walk hand-in-hand into the bedroom, exhausted and laughing. (Actually I hope they stop in the shower first. )
It's been said, not entirely in jest, that an affair of the heart is a success when each person is delighted to contribute more than half the effort while receiving less than half the benefits.