Hi water,
Quote water:
“Do you have any particular goals, aims, intentions?
I'm just wondering.”
*Apart from enabling my ongoing education at the university of life and learning more, I am trying to offer encouragement and a differing perspective. Is that ok?
Quote water:
“I don't really don't know far ahead; right now, it is finishing college and finding work -- releasing the stress I am under now.”
*Yes, and after the release of that stress, one moves on to the next stress? To me “fulfilment”, would be the achievement of happiness. And kissing the cosmos a little closer.
Quote water:
“If there are slaves, there are also masters.
Who do you think should change/do something for things to "get better"?”
*What should change, is that the superstitions mankind carries around with him, should be discarded. Religion, social norms, political systems, hierarchies, borders, etc. This can only occur when the system of indoctrination we currently live under, is rejected. For instance, have you ever questioned the education system that you find yourself in? You yourself are studying? Why? Has it ever occurred to you that science is as rigorously inflexible as is religion. And that they both indoctrinate? As much as they seem opposite, they are cut from the same cloth. For things to get better, the notion of the reward system needs to be rewritten. The carrot and the stick syndrome needs to be revisited. Am I asking for the reprogramming of human nature? Shake off the dust off religious legacies and return to the natural man. Our needs are simple. Food, shelter and love. Look at the world around you. Concrete, tar, belching fumes and unreal time frames. Ask yourself, what is the point? You are born, you live, you love (if you are lucky), and you die. What is the point? It seems the point is searched for in superstition. Is the point of existence to be found in superstition, or in being? It seems, once the illusion of “required norms” are rejected, the point of existence starts coming into focus.
Quote water:
“As long as people are different, as long as everyone doesn't look the same and think the same and live the same, there will be division -- be it by religion, the socio-economic standard, politics, ...
People -- who are different -- will fight for division, for they want to preserve their identity.”
*Divide and conquer. Tolerance is a requisite for leaving the accepted notion that “we all need to be different” behind. Religion, etc, is designed to engender intolerance. Once again discard superstition.
Quote water:
“Yes, they went to reclaim what they thought is rightly theirs. How is this not an act of fighting for survival?
They, Christians, fought for survival, and in doing so, they did what they needed to do.
I'm not sure we understand each other here. I'm saying that whenever someone fights, they fight for survival -- *whatever* they perceive necessary for that. Be it going to war, defending themselves, acquring new land and resources, destroying possible enemies in advance, forcefully converting heretics, ...”
*Acting on their superstitions , they wanted to change “others that were not like them” to conform to their own brand of “what we believe to be right”. They imposed a belief on others by force. In the name of Christianity.
Quote water:
“We have now wrapped ourselves into ideologies, doctrines etc., but the primary reasons that move us are the same -- survival -- we just happen to have words for them and elaborate conceptualizations.”
*If we were undivided, what would “survival” mean. So, by chipping away at the institutions that cause division, we would be moving in the right direction? There is an opportunity here to dig at Christianity. The start of division in the world according to Christianity:
Gen 11:1 And the whole earth was of one language, and of one speech.
Gen 11:7 Go to, let us go down, and there confound their language, that they may not understand one another's speech.
Gen 11:8 So the LORD scattered them abroad from thence upon the face of all the earth: and they left off to build the city.
Gen 11:9 Therefore is the name of it called Babel; because the LORD did there confound the language of all the earth: and from thence did the LORD scatter them abroad upon the face of all the earth.
*The beginning of division, according to the good book.
Quote water:
“Yes, cry, "Humanism!" in the face of consumerism and capitalism.
You keep on talking about choice, and how each individual can decide who to give authority over himself. The prospering of consumerism and capitalism says what then? Have people decided to give consumerism and capitalism authority over themselves?”
*Consumerism and capitalism prosper due to the enslavement of the masses. Capitalism is the prosperity of the very few, at the expense of the masses. To keep the masses under control, the promise of an improved lifestyle achieved via work is the carrot. Look at mass advertising in general. Sell a look, sell a lifestyle, engender aspiration, and Bobs your auntie. If you empower consumerism, one has to play by the systems rules, climb the financial ladder and hope to live well. Of course the tax, etc. that you pay is the enslaving factor. Unfortunately as is apparent “happiness” is not guaranteed. The suicide rate is highest in the most affluent societies. One can choose to reject consumerism and eat out of garbage bins or live off the land. In the end it remains a choice.
Quote water:
“On one hand you sympathize with people and are against consumerism and capitalism which condition people into seeking happiness in material possessions.
On the other hand, you advocate choice, and how one is free to choose.
If one has been ***conditioned*** to seek happiness in material possessions -- how is then one ***free*** to choose?”
*You can make the system work for you. Break free from the conditioning, by scrutinising everything that you were raised to believe has value or contains truth. Religion, politics, patriotism, medication, morals, science, etc. Decide for yourself what is important. Maybe what’s` important is lying around in the shade dozing, instead of going for job interviews.
“We are talking about a society in which there will be no roles other than those chosen or those earned. We are really talking about humanism."
(Gloria Steinem)
Quote water:
“If you insist that all we do, think is a matter of our choice, then the present situation (supposedly not humanistic) is a matter of our choice already anyway.”
*To the extent that you believe your tax dollars are going to benefit your quality of life, or fund the war in Iraq.
“In my view, humanism relies on reason and compassion. Reason guides our attempt to understand the world about us. Both reason and compassion guide our efforts to apply that knowledge ethically, to understand other people, and have ethical relationships with other people."
(Molleen Matsumara)
Quote water:
“The tyranny of compassion! What about people who don't want to have compassion?”
*He, he. Hit me with the soft pillow! Harder! Do you honestly oppose humanistic principles? Why?
Quote stretched:
*There need be no authority over me other then authority that I empower, out of rational reasoning and wisdom of experience.” ”
Quote water:
“Charles Manson thought in roundabout the same way.”
*I am not Charles Manson. Last I checked, I don’t drug, and I don’t do psychosis. But yes, I get your drift. Once again rejecting ingrained superstitions may have a wondrous effect on morality. Manson was deeply into religion. Dig?
Quote water:
“My point is that everyone can think about authority the way you do, but this doesn't mean that such individuals will form a stable society.
Unless they are all very much alike and empower the same authority over them, you'll get chaos.
If people are different, and empower different authorities, you can't have any justice in such a state.
If they are very much alike and empower the same authority, then this is in effect no different than any dictature. As soon as there is a minority of those who are different and empower a different authority, they will feel oppressed by the majority.”
*Good parents tend to raise good children into becoming good parents who tend to raise good children who tend to become good parents etc.
This is a great way to avoid outright chaos. But unfortunately parents who were taught this themselves, teach children about a wrathful god who will punish them for sinning, etc, so their little mind are contorted quite early on into becoming little weirdoes. The shepherd wields his crook, and the sheep are safe.
Quote water:
“That act of kindness would command authority over my behaviour towards the person?!
Why *command*?
There is no need to be kind to somene who has been kind to you.”
Ah, but this is where unconditional choice comes in. Free will if you will. I want to reciprocate because it is honestly meaningful to me.
Quote water:
“An omnimax God is hardly something a human could relate to anyway.
But Christianity offers you Jesus. Jesus you can relate to, can't you?”
*How can I relate to Jesus? If Jesus is god, and therefore they are one and the same, he was a pretty nasty piece of work in the OT. And then how come not only did he change so much as to become a fairly nice guy in the NT, but why did he need a NT in the first place? An omnipotent god should not need contingency plans. Nor would blood, pain and torture be necessary to invoke my sympathy to believe that he was some god in the flesh. So, no Jesus is not somebody I can relate to. Can you?
Quote water:
“There is one thing you need to understand when it comes to diseases, esp. AIDS: People like to think, "If there's no cure, there's no help." But this is too simplistic.
The point is that people want to do whatever they feel like, without this having any undesired consequences for them. AIDS can be stopped by prevention -- and this means change of behaviour.”
*Try telling that to someone infected by a blood transfusion. But the point is really, if people are praying for whatever, god ain’t hearing.
Quote water:
“Expecting God to give a cure is the same as demanding of God that our actions would have no undesired consequences for us -- that we could go on doing whatever we like without this being bad for us.
Or in another metaphor, people want God to give the fish, but people consistently refuse to learn to fish.
Surely, many people have been infected without this being their fault, like newborns. But such are the effects of sin. When one person sins, this *does* affect other people, in one way or another.”
*I reject the notion that sin transcends the sinner. This is a dangerous notion designed to enslave the masses. Problem, reaction, solution.
Quote water:
“What do you mean by "Love is unconditional"?
If one loves someone who refuses to be loved or who has made himself unlovable -- then there can be little or no visible effects of this love.”
*Now this is where it gets interesting. Are you saying we “love” with the expectation of an outcome? The epiphany of love is the realisation that real unconditional love expects absolutely nothing in return. It is an one way projection of connection and empathy. The “love” that we have been conditioned to believe, is the Hollywood romance kind of love, where the earth stand still when you meet Mr or Miss Right. This version is genetic, survival of the fittest.
Quote water:
“And why this "threatening hellfire for disbelief"?! You don't have to believe! If you don't, then you are left to yourself. So?
If you don't believe, and claim to know better -- then suit yourself. Then those threats should mean nothing to you anyway. So why bother about these threats?
I really don't understand why some people have such a problem with these "threats of hellfire". If they discard Christianity, then why complain about these threats?!”
*Pardon me if I am confusing, I was merely observing Christian belief. I do not lose sleep over this silliness.
Quote water:
“What do you mean by "unconditional"? To love someone NO MATTER what they do, and I do mean NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO.”
*Yes. But this is relative. For example, I love my son. If he commits a sadistic murder, I would utterly hate what he did, but I would still love him, as I know him as my son. I witnessed his birth and life. This does not mean I need support him.
Quote water:
“First of all, there are different fractions in Christianity, and they view the state of a baby differently.
Secondly, as being human, you are born into the human race, and you face the consequences of the sins your ancestors did, back to Adam. It is inavoidable that living among humans, you will, at least up to some point, sin as well, being influenced by other humans, and by the effects of other people's sins.
It's not your fault, but you sin anyway, and that you indeed sin becomes clear to you when you become aware that you have sinned. It is then from this point on that ou decide what to do about this sinning.
To compare: A baby born into a Nazi family will, at least in his young years, also be a Nazi, whether he likes it or not, it is not his own doing. But when and if he realizes that Nazism isn't good -- this is when he has to decide for himself, and becomes responsible for insisting in Nazism even though he may be sure it is wrong.”
*Original sin is a Christian creed. I don’t accept the concept of “sin”. This seems like a blanket term. I prefer “wrongs”. These wrongs are commonly determined by societal norms and is a debate in itself. I agree there comes a turning point at which time one knows what is the right thing or the wrong thing to do. Conscience is the key here. This would seem to be a survival mechanism.
Quote water:
“What now?! Do you believe that you could burn in hell, or what? Have you not discarded Christianity? I should think that to someone who has discarded Christianity, the threat of hell should seem totally ridiculous!
It is really odd. You take the threat seriously, but you have discarded Christianity. This is a grave inconsistency on your part.’
*I am observing here not stating my belief. Sorry to be so confusing. You should try to live with it!
Quote stretched:
“Now water, you KNOW that you create your own reality! He, he. What you believe, will become your reality.” ”
Quote water:
“If I had truly believed thus, I'd be in the madhouse.
Should I think that "I create my own reality" -- should I think that this post by someone called stretched was actually written by me?
What I believe is a part of my reality, but another great part of my reality is the rest of the world. We do affect eachother, whether we believe that or not.
You don't have to believe that you have been robbed, but if you don't, you'll keep on looking for your bag as if it was you who has left it somewhere.”
There always seems more to these things than meet the eye.
Quote:
“The idea "Creating your own reality" arose when physicists realized that quantum physics accurately predicted probabilities for events but not actualities of events.”
See here: (
http://listserv.arizona.edu/cgi-bin/wa?A2=ind9808&L=quantum-mind&P=R9474&I=-3)
Quote water:
“I think you are presenting humans to be greater weaklings than they actually are; more, you are willing to let them be greater weaklings than they actually are.”
*When you realise that there are billions of Christians who believe implicitly in a superstition, without bothering, or being to scared to question supposed facts and inconstancies, just in case they are marginalised, yes I consider them to be weak.
Quote water:
“One has to meet one's own criteria. These criteria haven't fallen from the sky though. They can be found to be part of this or that already existing ideology. But this doesn't automatically mean that one lives under the dictate of this ideology.
By behaviour, I'd pass for a Christian, and someone could say my views agree with the Christian. But this doesn't mean that I think for myself that I have to meet criteria demanded by Christianity.”
*What are these Christian views?
Quote water:
“This isn't true. One can choose to *accept* a knowledge, a truth, or not.
This is as good as it gets.
If you say that one can choose to know the truth about oneself, then you are implying that this truth already exists; and that the person already knows what it is, but then, by some "willful rebellion", "decides" not to know it.
You are making the same mistake as popular evangelizers, who brand every non-believer to be "wilfully rebelling against God". This is too simplistic, far too simplistic.
Just like some non-believers don't know what to think of God, whom to believe (and as such, their unbelief is not a willful rebellion), some people can't recognize the truth about themselves, can't get to it (for whatever reason) -- and you can blame neither for "choosing not to know".
*Pardon, what I mean is, you can choose whether it effects you or not.
Quote stretched:
“My advice can break it. It is quite simple. One can choose to change, or not.”
Quote water:
“How is your advice supposed to work on someone who has been *conditioned* into thinking that he cannot choose?!”
*Hopefully, my advice can penetrate the conditioning enough to plant a seed. At some stage, the mighty oak we see today was nothing but an acorn. Fortunately I am in a position where I am able to make a difference, undoing the damage caused by various types of “conditioning”. I also enjoy a fair success rate. Ultimately, even when we are exposed to a wider range of choices, we still choose to back the wrong horse.
Allcare.