You could try putting orajel in there...and I have put triple antibiotic in my ear canal...and also gargled with peroxide in order to disinfect 'round the eustacian tubes:
but I actually reccomend your choice of tylenol or ibuprofen in the doses recommended on the bottle.
Do not mix my suggestion with Mac's...which would work too.
You really ought to go have it looked at to make sure it's healing...and they have steroid drops that you can put in your ear...prescription ciprodex eardrops...MMMMM. Brings down the swelling and the infection.
If the eardrum ruptured due to infection? chances are pus oozed out of it...when that happened to me, the doc said that was common...
I found the pain diminished considerably after the eardrum burst. When I accidentally poked a hole scratching there was blood.
Either way, when I pinched my nose shut and blew, I could hear air whistling out of the hole in my eardrum, so I was sure it was popped.
The fact that it hurts you worse now I find worrisome. I don't want you to lose hearing or get your sense of balance damaged. Both possibilities (I think).
Get thee hence! To the GP with thee, woman!