Evolution speaking here there's nothing wrong with matching yourselves together based on similar traits
Also has doing all those things you mention helped you find a female?
thats the point I am not trying to find anyone yet. My plan is to achieve my goal by the birthday day of me turning 21...and than getting a degree in aero. eng...finding a job and that I will find a girl and merry her. But now...I got nothing...so I am a loneler.