Originally posted by Kant we all...
No. No. And, no.
Those who are praying for eternal life, solely, those who base their entire spiritual life on selfish motives,--these somehow missed the point. But given the state of most religious people nowadays, and given the disposition of atheism, it is not surprising that you make this observation.
The entire Christian ethic could never be selfish, on the part of humanity, for Christianity--unlike other religions--is not about man's search for God, but about God's search for man. And we cannot lay the blame of selfishness on God, for God cannot help but love us; nor can we call Him selfish insofar as He gives us free will: He does not require us to believe in Him. Hell, proper, is not defined by fire and damnation; Hell is a choice. Hell is the choice to reject God and fellow men and to be totally self-absorbed; we are our own Hell. For the one who prays, the essential outcome should not be selfishness, but selflessness; God makes the soul charitable who finds time to turn to Him.
No one does good of his own accord. Only God can give the gift of goodness to another. Anyone who claims to know the good or performs works of charity or whatever is, perhaps unknowingly, doing the work of God. The work of God gets done whether anyone wishes to cooperate or not; which is why everything holds together despite the fact that people continue to mistreat, hate, and sin against one another.