The way you deal with a situation like this Lori is to forgive the one who has hurt you. When a Christian forgives they place vengance into the hands of God. And the vengance of God is far more horrendous then anything we could ever inflict upon the one who has done wrong to us.
Romans 12:17-21
17Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. 18If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. 19Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, "Vengeance is Mine, I will repay," says the Lord. 20Therefore "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.
So forgive, The only way they can avoide the wrath of God then is to trully accept the Messiah Jesus. And if they do that then they will be your eternal brother/sistter in Jesus. You cannot lose.
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