perplexity said:
That is why it is basically over at 50,
because of the time it takes to grow an oak.
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the point is - to stop watering the tree before it has had time to grow (I may not even really start til age 49) is stupid. People are taught to misjudge their possibilities at every age. The kid sitting next to you in class isn't really going to be a rock star even though she may be the best singer in town - when the chances are next to none to do truly great things (other than the great things of everyday life), and nobody really knows what is going to have value, why judge anything?
I accomplished more in my career in the first five years than most people do their whole lives, but that was just part of the game, it didn't bring me any closer to true
greatness. It showed me that I had a possibility to do something great. If I continue to grow, it may be twenty more years and then the masterworks are created, but if I stop now I only receive the tin crown of semi-great, half-great, or kind-of-great, and resting in that is a death sentence for possibility.
Also, I live in hollywood where people aren't allowed to get old, and average and young is fugly here. This week I saw a woman getting coffee in my neighborhood who had to be at least 40 and looked so amazing that I literally felt physically dizzy standing next to her. I bet she looks better now than at 30 or 20, because she is so perfectly put together.
For some people it is about the norm, for others it's about the exceptions.