I see your points, but you and I can agree on what a dog actually is. If you and I are walking down the street side by side and see a dog run by, we will both agree that we saw a dog run by.
And when it comes to God, such an agreement is
not necessary* - unless, of course, one already strictly adheres (probably implicitly) to Abrahamic notions of who God supposedly is.
You work yourself up over nothing.
*Such an agreement is not necessary as long as God is defined as that being that is the source of all other beings and who is the benefactor of all beings.
I take issue with people changing definitions to suit what they wish others to believe.
The definitions that you work with have been authorized by whom? God?
And it's not like atheists don't wish other people would believe as the atheists wish.
There is only one definition for reality and that is how things REALLY ARE and as they really exist.
A truism. Useless.
No, it just means many people are not willing to admit that they have changed the meaning of reality and truth to suit their own beliefs.
And everyone is to believe that you know what reality is?
Lol.
So, is it safe to assume that many people believe that there are two separate realities: a spiritual reality AND an actual reality?
Many people believe that, yes, but I've never seen any point in it. There's one reality, and it has many areas, some material, some spiritual. Not everyone has equal access to all areas at all times.
Actual reality is what we can measure, verify, and is tangible. It might not be seen by all, but could be seen by all. Or heard by all. Or tasted by all. Or felt by all. Example, a friend of mine bought a dog recently, and when we speak by phone, I can hear it barking. I have never seen the dog, but there is some evidence that it exists. So, I'm able to verify evidence of the dog, even though I have not physically seen it, yet. With God, there is no such scenario. Someone telling me that God exists, doesn't make God a reality. Someone passing on Biblical 'knowledge,' doesn't make God a reality. Someone sharing the beliefs of another faith, even sharing stories of supposed miracles, etc...does not make God a reality.
Objective reality for it to be so, just is. I don't need to convince someone else, of objective reality or truths. He/she will be able to discover them on his/her own, should they be objective truths. Science, math, etc...are objective truths, and while someone might not be interested in learning about them, they are still available to be explored.
God is not a tangible reality, and if someone asserts that he is, then how are you definining reality?
Apparently in ways you don't like.
While I think these discussions are very interesting, it seems like they go in circles, because spiritual people/theists don't want to admit that their definition of reality, isn't an objective one. And I have to ask, why is that?
And the atheistic definition of reality is objective?
When I was a practicing Christian, I never thought God was an objective truth. Or an objective reality. No two theists can even agree as to who or what God may or may not be. So, to claim that God is an objective reality, tells me that someone either has purposely blurred the lines between actual reality, and subjective/spiritual reality, or just doesn't know the difference between the two. I won't go as far as to say 'God is not real,' because spirtuality can feel like a very real thing, in a person's life.
The third option is that maybe some people aren't qualified to see God.
But, it's still not objective, for if it were, atheists wouldn't need convincing. They would be able to see/feel/understand/hear what theists see/feel/understand/hear. Objective reality can be discovered very plainly, and if God were an objective reality, why is evidence of him such a mystery?
Why do people have a
fear of missing out?
Why do people feel envy?
Why do people feel like victims?
Why do so many people, theists and atheists alike, subscribe to the Abrahamic worldview?
Unless one is afraid that one is missing out, unless one is envious of others, unless one has the tacit belief that one has to "get it right in this one lifetime or suffer forever", unless one has the firm conviction that God, the universe and everyone and everything are unjust and one is an innocent victim:
then there is no reason to fret about God and theists.