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the foundation of love and compassion or discerning the nature of the self is obedience
This is utter nonsense.
Obedience: Various interpretations and implications.
submissive to the will of another
implies compliance with the demands or requests of one in authority
implies a predisposition to submit readily to control or guidance
suggests having a character that permits easy handling or managing
suggests a willingness to yield or to cooperate either because of a desire to be agreeable
Why claim any of those things are the foundation of love and compassion?
Why is the discerning nature of the self dependent on any of those things?
Love and compassion are emotionally driven desires that some people find important and others do not. Within the human race we see personalities that range from the wild emotional to the cold and heartless. Much of these styles are derived from their hereditary DNA and some to a lesser extent from the environment and conditioning. Whether one experiences either or pursues either is their free choice. Neither is dependent on obedience of any form.
Your assertion appears to have originated from your fantasy that a god is an ultimate source and that love and compassion are the ultimate goals of its requirements. From that you imagine that love and compassion can only be optimized and delivered through obedience to this alleged higher and ultimate authority. A concept that is not untypical of many mainstream religions.
These characteristics become embroiled in religious beliefs because they are usually highly attractive attributes that most people desire so they are set on a pedestal as if they are the ultimate rewards. Since religions are developed by man then naturally he has defined what he thinks a god could provide. The obedience component is introduced as the method of authoritarian control through the fear of denial, i.e. if you do not obey your ruler than love and compassion will be denied you.
There is nothing mystical or surprising about this primitive religious concept, even though you attempt to confuse this simplicity through the use of your confusing pseudo intellectual double-speak.
The discerning nature of self – I can perhaps guess at your inadequate implications here as to what this means but how it needs to be dependent on obedience seems even more obscure than love and compassion. I can predict though that as your fantasy requires a god as an ultimate controller then you would see that anything worthwhile could only be provided by that source and that it would demand obedience in return.