Today my neighbor came to visit. I've been taking care of their lawn while they have their house worked on (they're living somewhere else temporarily). He also just had surgery done to fix a bulging disk in his back. He came over to thank me for my prayers (several times). He and his wife are super nice folks. I just smiled and said, "well, it's good you're feeling better" or something.
What really went through my mind was "I'm an atheist, I don't pray. What makes you assume I'm religious...?"
So, what occurred to me was that I've had many people tell me they were christians or they'd mention Jesus or some such. But I'v never told an aquaintance (neighbor, etc.) "I'm an atheist. Yeah, I don't buy into that religious stuff..."
My feeling is that that would alienate them. Whereas I accept statements from all sorts of theists all the time. Am I wrong? Why do I sense that atheism is looked upon like a disease by theists?
So, how have other atheists here dealt with theist acquaintances who talk about their religion? What about theists here who have encountered atheists. What was it like?
What really went through my mind was "I'm an atheist, I don't pray. What makes you assume I'm religious...?"
So, what occurred to me was that I've had many people tell me they were christians or they'd mention Jesus or some such. But I'v never told an aquaintance (neighbor, etc.) "I'm an atheist. Yeah, I don't buy into that religious stuff..."
My feeling is that that would alienate them. Whereas I accept statements from all sorts of theists all the time. Am I wrong? Why do I sense that atheism is looked upon like a disease by theists?
So, how have other atheists here dealt with theist acquaintances who talk about their religion? What about theists here who have encountered atheists. What was it like?