This is a misuse of Facebook IMO I have a friend (a climbing gym friend) who just got remarried a couple of years ago. His wife is the kind of religious person who has to mention "God" in every post but it's usually not a dramatic post. It's usually "Here are pictures from a wonderful day hiking in the mountains. Thank you God, I'm so blessed".
Tonight she just posted this,"Dearest prayer warriors, I humbly request your intercession. Specifically for a tough conversation that will likely occur tomorrow. I need His wisdom, His words, His kindness, gentleness, and strength to be courageous. Prayers and/or scripture greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance."
My first thought was "WTF". This serves no purpose other than to seel attention. I am curious as to what the big deal is. She is either getting a divorce, going to the doctor, putting a dog down or having to return a purse to Nordstrom's that she's had for a year and is worrying about the return.
In any event, even with my limited understanding of "prayer", this is nonsensical. Should I say...
"Dear God, I'm praying for my friend who may be needing your wisdom, probably tomorrow and she is going to need your wisdom , gentleness and strength. I think she'll probably contact you directly but just to make sure, I'm contacting you as well.
I think some of her other friends (prayer warriors) will be contacting you too. Please don't be annoyed that some many people are contacting you or that none of us know what is going on. We assume that you already know what is going on. Thanks, praise to you God".
lol Ugh. Yea.
I have friends on FB who do the same. I see nothing wrong with offering to pray for someone if you feel inclined to offering that (if your intentions are good), but not making it a display on Facebook. That kind of thing is more like ''Look at meee, I'm a good Christian everyyyybodyyyy!''
You should post this in reply:
''But when you pray, go away by yourself, shut the door behind you, and pray to your Father in private. Then your Father, who sees everything, will reward you.'' Matthew 6:6
Although, hoping for a reward shouldn't be what motivates someone to pray. That passage is tied in with a bigger picture if I recall, where Jesus is telling his followers that the Pharisees do everything for show, and their reward will be an earthly one. So, it's not a quote to suggest that hey, if you pray, you'll be rewarded...it's more to point out that those who look for validation from others, they already get their reward here.
The Pharisees would have adored Facebook.
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