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I'm interested in the proposition that a lack of shame is indicative of a lack of conscience and hence identification of any behaviour as ethical or unethical.
Some more background, to clarify my meaning:
Shame is usually derived from an external source, ie appropabation from family, school and peer.
Shame is the recognition of personal failure to meet expected standards.
Although some psychologists see shame as similar to guilt, I prefer Erikson's evaluation of the two as separate.
The way I see it, shame requires an external agency, but guilt does not.
Guilt is an internal phenomenon that arises from a self assessment based on internalised moral precepts.
However, I do believe that shame and guilt are linked in that they both require a recognition that moral precepts exist.
I believe it is possible to feel guilt without shame, and shame without guilt.
I disagree with Erikson that shame results from an inability to resolve psychosocial issues in childhood, I think thats a cop out.
I think its more that realism leads to an acceptance that moral precepts are flexible and often conflict with goals and can hence be set aside.
For some people this realism is combined with an idealism where such precepts are descriptive of desired characteristics of a moral being and hence in company where such precepts are considered necessary to civilised society the idealist would feel shame.
What happens though, when the entire social milieu is based on the "so what" morality? When the moral precepts are only mouthed but not followed? In such a milieu the desired characteristics become superficial and there are other priorities which gain precedence. Then, it is unlikely that there would be shame. e.g. when it is acceptable that people commit mass murder for righteous ends, then for all those who prescribe to this morality, there is no shame in murder, in fact, there is recognition of who is good at it and such men may well sit down and recount stories of their exploits.
To extend this decline of shame to a blurring of the line between ethical and unethical, we can take other issues that have changed over time, either way, i.e. become more shameful or less.
More shameful:
- it was at one time considered not shameful to engage in sodomy with young boys.
- in Greek societies and perhaps Roman ones [as well as many others] deformed children were discarded as unacceptable
- a belief in the superiority of one caste/race over others
Less shameful:
- being a homosexual in Christian societies
- aborting a child
- having sex before marriage
- Letterman's admission of having sex with his co-workers
So once again, does shame define what is considered moral? Does a decline in shame precede a decline in ethics?
Does a lack of shame indicate an inability to differentiate between ethical and unethical?
Readings:
Psychosocial Theory: Erikson
Guilt, shame and morality [requires subscription]
Psychological foundations of moral education and character development [excerpts provided by Google books]
When the Conscience Falls Silent and Shame Dies Out [translated from the Russian]
Top 10 reasons why David Letterman's sex saga is not funny
I'm interested in the proposition that a lack of shame is indicative of a lack of conscience and hence identification of any behaviour as ethical or unethical.
Some more background, to clarify my meaning:
Shame is usually derived from an external source, ie appropabation from family, school and peer.
Shame is the recognition of personal failure to meet expected standards.
Although some psychologists see shame as similar to guilt, I prefer Erikson's evaluation of the two as separate.
The way I see it, shame requires an external agency, but guilt does not.
Guilt is an internal phenomenon that arises from a self assessment based on internalised moral precepts.
However, I do believe that shame and guilt are linked in that they both require a recognition that moral precepts exist.
I believe it is possible to feel guilt without shame, and shame without guilt.
I disagree with Erikson that shame results from an inability to resolve psychosocial issues in childhood, I think thats a cop out.
I think its more that realism leads to an acceptance that moral precepts are flexible and often conflict with goals and can hence be set aside.
For some people this realism is combined with an idealism where such precepts are descriptive of desired characteristics of a moral being and hence in company where such precepts are considered necessary to civilised society the idealist would feel shame.
What happens though, when the entire social milieu is based on the "so what" morality? When the moral precepts are only mouthed but not followed? In such a milieu the desired characteristics become superficial and there are other priorities which gain precedence. Then, it is unlikely that there would be shame. e.g. when it is acceptable that people commit mass murder for righteous ends, then for all those who prescribe to this morality, there is no shame in murder, in fact, there is recognition of who is good at it and such men may well sit down and recount stories of their exploits.
To extend this decline of shame to a blurring of the line between ethical and unethical, we can take other issues that have changed over time, either way, i.e. become more shameful or less.
More shameful:
- it was at one time considered not shameful to engage in sodomy with young boys.
- in Greek societies and perhaps Roman ones [as well as many others] deformed children were discarded as unacceptable
- a belief in the superiority of one caste/race over others
Less shameful:
- being a homosexual in Christian societies
- aborting a child
- having sex before marriage
- Letterman's admission of having sex with his co-workers
So once again, does shame define what is considered moral? Does a decline in shame precede a decline in ethics?
Does a lack of shame indicate an inability to differentiate between ethical and unethical?
Readings:
Psychosocial Theory: Erikson
Guilt, shame and morality [requires subscription]
Psychological foundations of moral education and character development [excerpts provided by Google books]
When the Conscience Falls Silent and Shame Dies Out [translated from the Russian]
Top 10 reasons why David Letterman's sex saga is not funny
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