Personally I think marriage is silly. The only reason I'm even considering getting married is for legal reasons and perhaps to legitimize my relationship to those who left their minds back at the turn of the 20th century. Other than that I don't see any difference between being married and sharing your life with someone. I kind of like the idea mentioned earlier about marriage being a private matter. Perhaps having a ceremony for your family and friends if you want to announce your choice to be together, but from the states perspective love has nothing to do with choosing to get married only about what benefits to give to whom. I don't see why that is gender specific, but it maybe its just me. My grandmother says I'm still to immature to understand marriage and procreation and what not, so I'll give her that maybe I am.
You speak with honesty, Cutsie.