It sounds like the dictator in Saudi Arabia and Muslims adapted to each other rather than the muslims exercising revenge.
Sure, they may disagree with him on some counts but they have safety and security of way of life and religion, free education and health care, subsidized housing. Those people who want more religious freedom (or personal) move to areas of the country that are less strict (like cities), but on the whole most of them prefer their way of life. So why would they seek revenge?
You said Muslims would help an incompetent ruler or disrespect him. Although you claimed the latter an accomplishment the former seems to be more constructive and IMO would be the accomplishment.
So how would one help Saddam or the Shah? By offering suggestions? Don't forget, any criticism was liable to get you thrown into a vat of acid or something/
I meant just like U.S. civil wars (not world wars however). Since the formation of the U.S. it has undergone alot of changes and alot of them are becuase its inhabitants wanted to change. The ratio of people-desired changes applied vs civil wars is practically negligable. The impression I get is that Islam would resist even the smallest change in order to preserve itself and if its people wanted a change bad enough civil war would be the result.
There is no comparison. If you consider that people in the ME have lived under atrocious dictataors since the formation of the ME in 1920s (if I am not mistaken) and that the major coups have been seen only in Iran (where the SAVAK tortured the local people), or in Lebanon where the Israelis were pushed out after 18 years of occupation, or in Darfur where the local people revolted due to oppression and famine, it does not seem like small changes that result in upheavels.
So what's good for them? Should they accept what is and go for peace, should they not sin an seek revenge revenge revenge, ... something else?
Thats not for me to say, is it? It is their life and they have to live with the choices they make. Without sufficient knowledge of their present circumstances, can I pass judgement on why they are resorting to such desperate measures?
Muslims appear to be moving to countries all over the world and living in foreign cultures. Is it realistic for a practitioner of Islam to do so under the pressures of these cutures?
I think most of them would prefer to stay where they are. Its unusual for people in the ME to uproot themselves from places where they have lived for thousands of years. They have no problems with external cultures, but are probably tired of internal war and oppression and have chosen the other method recommended in the Quran. If you are unhappy with your current circumstances, change them; if you cannot, then move to a different place where you can be happy. As you say, coups and civil war are accompanied by bloodshed. So while most of them could live in reasonable peace under Saddam, for example, the new democracy was a little harder to take, so rather than stay and fight, they have taken the path of discretion and chosen to leave. Same as for people from Palestine or Lebanon.
As to pressures, well between life and inconvenience, most of us would pick life.