birch,
do me a favor and get over yourself enough to listen to what i'm saying. these are my thoughts on heaven and hell. i've never been to heaven (that i recall), and i've never been to hell (that i recall). if heaven and hell are places that exist in a spiritual realm, then i do not remember ever being there. that said, i am inclined to believe what it says in the bible about heaven and hell, because of other things that i have experienced, and i remember very well.
i'm also inclined to believe in heaven and hell because of the duality i see in nature, and the condition of the human race, and what i see as contributing to that. i like to think in terms of parallel universes with a given set of natural laws, and in which the addition or alteration of one action, one choice, or even one thought, could create an entirely unique existence over time.
now consider the premise i believe, and have expressed in other threads, that there is a right answer. a right choice, a right thought, according to given laws, and according to the greater good. apply that premise and you'll end up with a spectrum of possibilities, and the extreme opposites would be heaven and hell. that's actually the basis for the implied segregation i'm talking about in the communion thread.
from what i know, if i had to guess, i would guess that the spiritual realm probably isn't all that different from how it is here, in that what you and everyone around you, want, and what you choose, and what you do, in large part determines your quality of life.