1. You are a rapist if you get a girl drunk and have sex with her.
The verb is too vague for me here to draw a conclusion. It sounds like rapist mentality, but I am not sure.
2. You are a rapist if you find a drunk girl and have sex with her.
I think this can be true. But I think it is too hard a rule. What if she hits on me? What if we are both drunk?
3. You are a rapist if you get yourself drunk and have sex with her. Your drunkeness is no excuse.
Well, if I find my wife drunk and I am drunk and we kiss and have sex, it ain't rape. I get the idea here. If you see someone incapacitated and they really don't know what's going on and you do and you have sex with them that is rape.
4. If you are BOTH drunk you may still be a rapist.
That is possible of course.
5. If she's alternating between puking her guts out and passing out in the bed then you're a rapist.
Not enough info. You are definitely an idiot.
6. If she's sleeping and you have sex with her you're a rapist.
Agreed.
7. If she's unconscious and you have sex with her then you're a rapist.
Agreed.
8. If she's taking sleeping pills and doesn’t wake up when you have sex with her then you’re a rapist.
Agreed, though covered by the other two.
9. If she is incapacitated in any way and unable to say 'Yes' then you're a rapist.
Agreed.
10. If you drug her then you're a rapist.
Not well worded, but agreed.
11. If you find a drugged girl and have sex with her then you're a rapist.
Probably. If you are not on drugs, if she doesn't hit on you. Depends on the drug also. I might think I was suddenly attractive for the first time and the drugged girl might not seem drugged and I could honestly have gotten consent. For example.
12. If you don't bother to ask her permission and she says neither 'Yes' or 'No' then you could be a rapist.
That is possible.
13. You are a rapist if you 'nag' her for sex. Because you manage to ply an eventual 'yes' from a weary victim doesn't mean it's not rape. You are a rapist.
Then I have been raped by a woman.
14. You are a rapist if you try to circumvent her "No" by talking her into it. She's not playing hard to get, and, even if she IS it's not YOUR responsibility to 'get' her. You're still a rapist.
You are an asshole. It does not say if you have sex with her or how this sex came about, so I can't really determine anything.
15. You are a rapist if you manipulate her into sex when she doesn't otherwise want it. If you say, "If you loved me you’d do X" then you're a rapist. If you say, "All the other kids are doing it!" then you're a rapist.
Possibly. You are an asshole, however. And again, if this is true, I have been raped by a female.
16. If you threaten her, or act in a way that SHE thinks you're threatening her then you're a rapist. If you puff up and get loud and frustrated while trying to 'talk' her into sex then you're a rapist.
Yes. Maybe. And I would vote for asshole for the 3rd scenario, unless there is more to go on. People can feel threatened by things that are normal, non-violent and respectful, especially victims of sexual abuse, so the second case is not clear at all.
OK. I got bored.
I think the most disturbing thing on this thread is
Whoever made that list really needs a dick in their mouth.
Kadark the Righteous
This is definite rapist talk. He is angry and his anger gets transformed into his perception that she needs ( or really 'deserves') to be pentrated. This is rape talk.
I feel angry. She should experience sex. That's rape mentality.
Aren't any of the men disturbed by feminazis disturbed also by Kadark's idea?
Set aside our camps.
Would you want this guy around your younger sister?