Matters of Degrees
The contrast exists at one level, and flies out the window at another.
Not quite a digression: One of the weirdest things video games have taught me over the years is the "attribute slider". You know, as you flip through characters for a fighting game, or survey your team in a sports game. Speed, 80. Strength, 82. Agility, 79. That sort of thing. And in some games you could adjust those numbers, but it's generally a (quasi-) zero-sum endeavor; to increase one, you decrease another.
It's proven a useful tool for explaining certain things to certain people over time, but it also has its limits.
The power issue is undeniable in rape, but it is not the only factor. For many, the reminder about power had to do with the idea of some psycho grabbing a woman and raping her in a van down by the river, or something. Ted Bundy. Gary Ridgway. That sort of thing.
And the power issue is certainly prominent in marital rape.
It is less apparent in date rape, but the connection 'twixt sexual satisfaction and regard for other people as subordinate is necessary.
And while the rape of children by Catholic priests is not without fundamental connection to deprivation and repression, the act requires exploitation of the power issue.
As one considers various manifestations of rape in society, the differences can be described loosely like attribute sliders. If the psycho's "power issue" or authority need is 95, perhaps the marital rapist's is in the high eighties; maybe the date rapist's is in the seventies. Catholic priests? That's a tough one. It probably varies from rapist to rapist. The one holding boys down and muffling their screams are probably very high on the authority need scale. The one playing childish games in order to foster exposure and contact is seemingly less so, but the process is not without its exploitation of the power dynamic between abuser and victim.
Like I said, the illustration has its limitations.
Additionally, I can only reach so far after such explanations because they are intellectual propositions to me; I don't have a strong grasp of the visceral condition, and, in truth, that's a good thing. Some knowledge I just don't want.
But I don't think that power and gratification is an either-or proposition. Rather, I think the contrast you note is a matter of degrees.
GeoffP said:
Here's a question: the paradigm of the psychological basis of rape is taken these days - I think - as a power issue.
Yet the rape of children by Catholic priests is considered to be a sexual one - again, I believe, recently - as an issue of sexual deprivation and repression.
Do these contrast, or have I misread these relative paradigms?
The contrast exists at one level, and flies out the window at another.
Not quite a digression: One of the weirdest things video games have taught me over the years is the "attribute slider". You know, as you flip through characters for a fighting game, or survey your team in a sports game. Speed, 80. Strength, 82. Agility, 79. That sort of thing. And in some games you could adjust those numbers, but it's generally a (quasi-) zero-sum endeavor; to increase one, you decrease another.
It's proven a useful tool for explaining certain things to certain people over time, but it also has its limits.
The power issue is undeniable in rape, but it is not the only factor. For many, the reminder about power had to do with the idea of some psycho grabbing a woman and raping her in a van down by the river, or something. Ted Bundy. Gary Ridgway. That sort of thing.
And the power issue is certainly prominent in marital rape.
It is less apparent in date rape, but the connection 'twixt sexual satisfaction and regard for other people as subordinate is necessary.
And while the rape of children by Catholic priests is not without fundamental connection to deprivation and repression, the act requires exploitation of the power issue.
As one considers various manifestations of rape in society, the differences can be described loosely like attribute sliders. If the psycho's "power issue" or authority need is 95, perhaps the marital rapist's is in the high eighties; maybe the date rapist's is in the seventies. Catholic priests? That's a tough one. It probably varies from rapist to rapist. The one holding boys down and muffling their screams are probably very high on the authority need scale. The one playing childish games in order to foster exposure and contact is seemingly less so, but the process is not without its exploitation of the power dynamic between abuser and victim.
Like I said, the illustration has its limitations.
Additionally, I can only reach so far after such explanations because they are intellectual propositions to me; I don't have a strong grasp of the visceral condition, and, in truth, that's a good thing. Some knowledge I just don't want.
But I don't think that power and gratification is an either-or proposition. Rather, I think the contrast you note is a matter of degrees.