No, susan, we call this "accept reality" philosophy. Are the men doing anything wrong? Are they doing something illegal or in any way detrimental?
What do you want these men to do? Do you expect to have a radar on them? "Oh look at that chick, Bob."
"Don't try it Jerry. She doesn't want men to hit on her at a bar."
"How do you know? Generally every other woman is fine with it?"
"Fuck Jerry, you better go get your radar check again."