The underlying message is the same in the Torah, Bible, and Qu'ran; lead a humble life devoted to the betterment of man.
No, the message is to pay submission and worship god, first and foremost, before anything else, including your family.
Violence is occasionally mentioned as a punishment for those who deviate from from this path and thus serves as a means to an end, much like the threat of imprinsonment or death for a crime.
Yes, we stand in horror and amazement at the story of Noah as god takes a very dim view of mankind and drowns them all, save one family. Further wonderment of the blameless animals of the world drowning too is equally baffling, and sordid.
To contrived ends, Islam promotes lying, killing and going to war to meet it's objectives of intolerance and bigotry.
Violence is well established and promoted in these ancient myths.
Controversial violent preachings derived from scriptures to promote actions such as genocide and terrorist attacks are highly manipulated lies far removed from the actual message presented in the holy books.
"Christian, dost thou see them
On the holy ground?
How the troops of Midian
Prowl and prowl around?
Christian, up and smite them,
Counting gain but loss;
smite them by the merit
Of the holy cross."
A Christian tune glorifying the genocide of the Midianites by the hand of Moses, incited by his god.
Or, perhaps when god drove out the Amorites, Canaanites, Hittites, Perizzites, Hivites and Jebusites from their homes so that the 'children of god' could have a new home. Sound familiar?
"...ye shall destroy their altars, break their images, and cut down their groves. For thou shalt worship no other go: for the Lord, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God." (Exodus 34:13-17)