I shall try and sum up as best I can:
I am quite happy that others should live their lives as they see fit, subject to the constraints of society.
I have no particular quarrel with theists. I don't share their beliefs but it is not for me to tell them what to believe. I do have a quarrel/urge to argue with those, of whatever persuasion, who proselytize ads I feel they need to be answered.
I have argued that the universe is either determined or it is not. If you are not disposed to accept either view, then it is surely up to you to suggest what other possibilities there might be. You are entitled to say you accept neither view but you cannot expect to be taken seriously unless you can say why.
At the risk of repeating myself can I say that a comonsense view suggestes determinism. To deny this is fine, but if such a denial is to have any creditability evidence must be adduced to show that there are events which have no antecedent causes. I know of none so ,within the limits of my experience, the universe seems to me to be determined. I would like to believe that I had freedom of choice ( I cannot imagine anyone choosing to be a robot)
I have said that I have no way of knowing. When I act I feel my actions are free but that is no guarantee that they are so. I have no way of knowing. Free or determined I will feel free when I act, insofar as I happen to think about it.
And now I come to the crux of the matter. I live my life without regard to whether I am free or determined, as I imagine most people do. I would never get out of bed in the morning if I lay there trying to decide whether the act of getting up was free or determined. I have no choice but to act.
Finally. I may be wrong. But so may those who disagree with me. I can say no more than that.