I have a son who is almost 17. He is not attracted to women and he is not attracted to men. What is this called? how can my husband and I help him through this? We have not been able to find any information on this. We are concerned that he will never develope an attraction to anyone. He is an otherwise normal teen. This is causing him a great deal of stress and discomfort. Please what are your thoughts on this matter and are there any reading materials out there regarding others like him?
Thank you
I wasn't attracted to opposite sex either (I'm a girl) until I was about nearly 20. I saw it as a waste of time
After school or in weekend, my friends went shopping, went to cinema (with their boyfriends/girlfriends), I didn't get it.
One day I brought this two thick books to Uni canteen and read one of them while eating and later on my best friend (a girl), told me, that's not very attractive, and I was like :bugeye: But that phase was over as I am more opened to people.
Actually, every end of semester, all parents were invited to come to school or Uni, and our academic supervisor would give our parents the result of our exams of that semester. Then, there was this groups of students chatting with my mum (she is very friendly, my dad is more calm). Then my mum asked my classmates, so hows me at school? Then this guy told my mum, I am not friendly at all, always seemed angry or something :bugeye: I was never angry, but I was somewhat serious. After that, everyday my mum kept telling me to smile to people, to ask my friends to come over, etc. Then some guys also started to called to my home phone, so annoying
So I guess, some people are just late.. maybe you have to talk and listen to your son, how is his feeling, is he shy or what.. why is he shy, etc.. Can also bring him to psychiatrist if it reach the point where he gets depressed..