They will do it anyway.
Not if you don't have it in writting in my state! I'm in Florida and by law the hospital must keep you alive unless you have written it down and posted it with them that you don't want to be revived if you are "brain dead".
They will do it anyway.
Not if you don't have it in writting in my state! I'm in Florida and by law the hospital must keep you alive unless you have written it down and posted it with them that you don't want to be revived if you are "brain dead".
That's what I meant, they will resuscitate you regardless of your DNR tattoo.
You need a legal document for that.
I do, that's why the tattoo to remind them to look my document up!
If PB was in a car acident and she would end up in a PVS i wouldnt hesitate to stop medical intervention and she dam well better do the same for me. I have told her this over and over again as she has to me.
Its not up to YOU orleander to judge his actions. Her idiot parents made sure the courts did that even though they had no right to
Because they probably woke up every morning with the knowledge that their mother is miserable and in a care facility, and that they are powerless to do anything to help her. I'm sure her death was a huge weight off their chests.
Cazzo:
So you're suggesting that her husband is a liar? ....
for me there doesn't have to be a point to living. I just want to live.
... In short, you are CRUEL.....
Sure, why not. He was the only person she said this too and he gained financially from her death.
ANYWAYS, she is gone now. This was not a 'what would you do' question. It was not a "is her husband a bastard' thread.
In short, you are CRUEL....
Just what did her husband make from her death? He took care of her for more than 15 years before she died. He was with her day and night for months on end at his and her home.
I don't blame the husband at all. That is a lot to put on someone. The way Orleander paints this picture is like he tried to get rid of her soon after she fell into this state. I read somewhere he even became a medical student or something within that time. 15 Yrs this went on. I can't even imagine. My son just turned 12 and it seems like he has been around forever. The daily pain of seeing your wife like that for 15 yrs....omg that really is torture. He did his duty as a husband, far beyond what a lot of other husbands or wives may have done. Enough was enough.
Cazzo:
So you're suggesting that her husband is a liar? That's a serious allegation. Perhaps you ought to start by putting forward some evidence that her husband has collected on the life insurance.
You might also want to explain why he only moved to disconnect her from her feeding tube after consulting the very best medical specialists, flying her to California for experimental treatment as well as training to become a nurse so that he could care for her. In fact, he spent 8 years looking after her until petitioning to disconnect the feeding tube.
Finally, you might want to explain why the Supreme Court found that there was considerable evidence demonstrating that Terri had expressed her wishes not to live as a vegetable.
He had a girlfriend? OMFG NATIONAL DISASTER HANG THE BASTARD!!! How dare he move on?! Perhaps the diagnosis of 'persistent vegetative state' had something to do with his decision?
Fuck you assholes, insinuating that this man is a murderer. How despicable.
\Thanks, and no prob
Euthanasia is legal here in The Netherlands. But the patient has to ask for it him/herself either directly or by previous declaration.
There are also rules to it. The doctor must :
a) be convinced that the patients decision was voluntarily and well thought though.
b) be convinced that the patient experiences unbearable suffering without the prospect of ever getting better.
c) have comprehensibly briefed the patient about their situation and prospects.
d) have come to the conclusion, together with the patient, that under the circumstances euthanasia is the only reasonable solution.
e) have contacted at least one independent physician to meet and examine the patient. This doctor must produce a report that concludes points a) through d) have been met.
f) administered the euthanasia with the utmost medical care.
So you didnt ask him about being brain dead? You presented it as sick? Like cancer ?He didn't ask, "well how long" or "how sick would you be?" He said, "I vowed for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health. I love you and I would be some kind of shallow bastard to not care about you if you got sick."
Sorry orleander but what does your husband say if you ask him if this (insert wardrobe item here) makes you look fat?I said "How long til it became a burden" He said "What the hell is wrong with you? Have you lost your mind. How can loving someone be a burden? You take care of me, I take care of you. That's how it is"
When your kids have to drop out of college because the education fund has been drained to pay for feeding tubes and diapers and nursing homes. When the home your husband (and the rest of your family) have previously enjoyed is sold because the bills have overwhelmed the finances and you can only file bankruptcy once every seven years or so.Do some of you not know what loving someone is? Did your grandparents and parents act that way if one of them became ill? When is an act of love a burden?
It's easy to say to a person that is alive and healthy, what you would do. Wait until something like that happens and see if you think the same way. I have heard enough stories about this kind of thing from my friend at the hospital. The wasted lives of family members who drag themselves to the hospital day after day...yr after yr. How it looks like life has kicked the shit out of them and they never smile. All they feel is pain for what they have to witness everyday. There is a woman who comes for her son for over 5 yrs now. My friend said sometimes she sits with her and brings her a muffin and a coffee because she looks like she never eats. She has become disillusion and holds on to the hope that her son will someday snap out of it. There is no chance and the Dr have told her that. She still feels the need to keep hoping.First off being brain dead or a vegetable is not being "SICK"
I have been second guessing myself with the 'selfish' attacks I have read. So I asked my husband (he hasn't read this thread) if it would be selfish of me to ask that he take care of me if something happened to me. He didn't ask, "well how long" or "how sick would you be?" He said, "I vowed for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health. I love you and I would be some kind of shallow bastard to not care about you if you got sick." I said "How long til it became a burden" He said "What the hell is wrong with you? Have you lost your mind. How can loving someone be a burden? You take care of me, I take care of you. That's how it is"
Do some of you not know what loving someone is? Did your grandparents and parents act that way if one of them became ill? When is an act of love a burden?
So you didnt ask him about being brain dead? You presented it as sick? Like cancer ?...