Buddha1 said:
I think it will come out gradually from a discussion.
For one thing, being straight forward, fair and to an extent even honesty --- these are qualities associated with positive natural masculinity.
Shit, I am a man! What went wrong with my body parts? Are you seriously saying women are not straightforward, fair, honest? These are personal qualities and have zero to do masculine/femenine issues.
There are two ways of looking at natural masculinity and femeninity, from a biological point of view as dictated by hormones and from a cultural stero type point of view. Where does your above analysis fit?
Natural masculinity is that which is dictated by testosterone, you can look that up! There is also the cultural stero type footie loving, beer drinking blah blah blah
Natural femeninity is dictated by oestrogen and progesterone, both physically and characteristically. Again there is a cultural stero type - petite, long hair, dresses- gentle, caring, compassionate, mothering qualities, a carer blah blah
Not all men or women possess these traits, or they possess these traits in higher or lower quantities.
We are more than the sum of our parts.