So lets see. A man marries a woman, provides for her and her children which he had no way of confirming a his, for life, and this was an advantage for him. In some societies, he did this for several women and their children, and this was an even bigger advantage for him. Ever wonder why he needed to provide for any of them at all? Why does a man need to care for any children? What would be the advantage to a male of being restricted from impregnating as many women as possible? What would be the advantage to the man of looking after children simply by assuming responsibility for their well being, along with the well being of the woman? What would be a disadvantage of this system for a woman who had no options in controlling who impregnated her and how often?
So you're stuck on ancient marriage, and I'm talking about all marriage. I suppose it didn't make much of a difference for the girl in Albania who never had a say in who she banged anyway, you're right. But all the others...?
Why does a man need to care for a child? Because he wants to, maybe? Or are men unfeeling bastards, in your estimation? I'm assuming you're going to tell me next that men don't ever take care of their children, or only do so when in wedlock?
And what's with your anti-female stance? Is that the Muslim in you talking? Why is it automatically assumed that the woman is carrying someone other than the husband's child?
Exactly.
I know you want to pin all sins on the woman, since that is what you've been told to believe your entire life, but men are unfaithful as well.