Hi Cool Skill:
I am a little confused about the "Special Ed." appellation.
I kind of expected a few replies to your original post , pro or con, with some support for their respective positions based in Biology. Haven't seen much though, so I thought I'd give this a shot. Spurious and some others hopefully will point out where I am off the mark.
I understand your position to be that the life of an individual organism, an individual, multicellular, eukaryotic, sexually reproducing organism, begins with the fusion of sperm and egg. I assume that you mean karyogamy.
If an individual, multicellular, eukaryotic organism is alive, then the life of that organism must have begun at some point in time. The question, the point of debate, is when.
I think that it all depends on what sort of life cycle is involved:
Consider organisms that produce spores by meiosis, such as fungi. A spore produced by meiosis divides mitotically, again and again, to form a multicellular mycelium. This multicellular mycelium is genetically identical to, and the direct descendant of, that spore. It seems that the life of that mycelium began upon the completion of meiosis.
Now, for organisms that produce gametes by meiosis, most if not all animals, then any multicellular organism is a direct descendant of the zygote, formed by karyogamy. So, I think that is a sound statement that you made: It's life began with the fusion of the sperm and egg nuclei. It's a little different in mammals than in, say, a sea urchin, I believe. It seems that sperm and egg nuclei do not fuse immediately in mammals. They both share a common spindle apparatus and divide mitotically first, and then they fuse. But, It seems that your point is still essentially correct. Spurious, or whoever wants to, please add your two cents.
For plants and some protists that have alternation of generations, the life of the gametophyte begins with the formation of the spore, and the life of the sporophyte begins with the fusion of the sperm and egg nuclei.
Am I wrong about this? If so, someone please add corrections or amend my statements here to make them correct. I realize that there are plenty of confounding factors with some species. The concept of an individual is not always clear with some plants and protists. Different fungal mycelia may fuse. Then, there's polyploidy etc. But I think that for the most part I'm fundamentally sound here. If not, please explain.