My daughter has just got her first proper Boy Friend, and last night she was kissing him, she is 14 and he is 16yrs old, and he was holding her in ways that frankly i didnt like,
and i had an over whelming urge to kick his head in, and kick him out of the house, is this normal?
also she is babysitting for my friend on saturday and she wants him to go along with her, but i am so affriad, i know 16yr old boys and frankly this boy ahs already admitted to not being a virgin and loosing his verginity at 12yrs old, everytime i see him touch my daughter and even look at her i want to slap his face, i see so many girls who are having babies and all i want to do is protect my daughter from that, she is such a bright thing and she has a lot going for her, i dont want her to do anything stupid with this boy, but i don't like him very much.
is this normal, i feel sick when i see him touch her, (there is nothing sexual about it, that i can tell, but i am so scared)
should i stop her seeing him? should i kick his head in? should i ban him from the house?
My mind say's yes to all three questions but she is such a head stron young girl that i worry that she will go of and meet this boy without me knowing, i know, i know, the chances of this boyfriend being a permanet fixture is rare, but i dont want her to do anything stupid with him before she is ready, and kowing that he lost his virgintity at 12yrs old scares me even more, i did say to him the other night, "be aware, if you did anything with my girl, it is very difficult to stand up in court with your jaw wired up"
i dont want to drive her away but i am affraid he will try somthing with her.
IS FEELING LIKE THIS NORMAL??
and i had an over whelming urge to kick his head in, and kick him out of the house, is this normal?
also she is babysitting for my friend on saturday and she wants him to go along with her, but i am so affriad, i know 16yr old boys and frankly this boy ahs already admitted to not being a virgin and loosing his verginity at 12yrs old, everytime i see him touch my daughter and even look at her i want to slap his face, i see so many girls who are having babies and all i want to do is protect my daughter from that, she is such a bright thing and she has a lot going for her, i dont want her to do anything stupid with this boy, but i don't like him very much.
is this normal, i feel sick when i see him touch her, (there is nothing sexual about it, that i can tell, but i am so scared)
should i stop her seeing him? should i kick his head in? should i ban him from the house?
My mind say's yes to all three questions but she is such a head stron young girl that i worry that she will go of and meet this boy without me knowing, i know, i know, the chances of this boyfriend being a permanet fixture is rare, but i dont want her to do anything stupid with him before she is ready, and kowing that he lost his virgintity at 12yrs old scares me even more, i did say to him the other night, "be aware, if you did anything with my girl, it is very difficult to stand up in court with your jaw wired up"
i dont want to drive her away but i am affraid he will try somthing with her.
IS FEELING LIKE THIS NORMAL??