Actually, I think those past experiences tend to turn out as far less important than they first seemed.
So the place you are stuck in and how to get out of it is not important? This was the topic. Not the topic of past traumas/relationships which I know you think not important. But here we are talking about LG not seeming to GET the particular quandry you are in AND YET he is giving you advice about it and passing on absolute truths that he thinks relate to it. I can't see how in this context those past experiences and how his soul extricated itself from such a trouble spot could be unimportant to someone taking the role he is taking.
In the end, it is the standard doctrinal arguments that count.
Without relying on them, we are actually presuming that there exists a neutral, objective meta-narrative (about anything and everything, including religion), I mentioned this earlier in this thread in a reply to LG. Such a meta-narrative introduces a whole section of problems that are impossible to resolve.
It seems you are actually acknowledging this by introducing the importance of there being a compatibility between the person and the religions tradition - as this way, the problems with the meta-narrative are avoided.
Yes, I think this is closer to my position. I don't think I or anyone else can take themselves out of the equation and find truth. The mind thinks it can do this, but I can't for the life of me see how this would happen. We would need, it seems to me, to somehow see or know the end state in advance, and to be able to evaluate it, perhaps even compare it to what other systems are presenting. And we would need to look at the practices also in this intellect way and GET them somehow from our current state.
I think there are a number of ways one can proceed without this kind of final evaluation and while they do not deny the intellect, the intellect per se is not so important. It serves more to confirm - hey, I do feel better OR wow, the more I do this the more things make sense OR whatever satisfies the given intellect.
There is a first step and then there is a second step and conviction and belief may be a long time in coming. But if that first step is my best guess or the most attractive one, well I might as well take it, unless not taking a step seems my best option by whatever process I decide such things.
I oppose this process to one where absolute truth is a like a device we have found on a table that we take apart with small tools.
Truth is there on the table. I am the seeker. I analyze the 'doctrinal arguments'.
And from where I am, I don't even want to simply acknowledge that term as if it covers all bases. It does not cover mine.
I was very much interested in the sound of the voice, how it felt, what it acknowledged about it self. How the relationship feels.
I do think a lot can be understood and explained on an intellectual level. This is the function of this level anyway.
Not before experience. From outside. Looking at words.
I agree. And I also think there may be many more details to the communication between a teacher and a student, or a member and an outsider or aspirant. That is, the member ideally has to make sure he presents his religion in a respectable way; this can mean that he may appear overly bookish or rigid. Thus communication isn't simply between one person and another, but has the added formal aspect of taking place between a member and an outsider/aspirant.
To the degree that control and reduced spontanaeity are seen as inherent goods. I think care and gentleness can take place without formality. Certainly in some situations with some individuals formal interactions may be a must.
Yes, this is quite accurate. It is a very schizoid situation.
If you mean schizoid in the technical sense this has a great deal of separation, both from others and the self. This might be why I respond about the dynamic between the seeker and the truth - in fact I don't really even like that formulation because if the truth is over there then it is not already present in the seeker, so the seeker is already in some important way nothing. Which works for some people.
I think Christians are like that too, for example.
yes, you are right. Though my experience is that they are more hot blooded about this lack of compassion. If you cut out the sound - so the words could not be heard - I think their faces and body language would look more aggressive and filled with contempt. The plus is that this is there one the table. But I am going by Christians I know in the area where I grew up. They are a diverse lot.
It is part of the concept of Absolute Truth that I and my actions are accounted for as well.
Yes, I understood that. But again, then you are in it. You bring nothing to the relationship. And if there is a God, you bring nothing, since God knows you, does not need your help and is complete without you. The truth is out there. You must find it and then conform yourself to it.
A lot of people do look at it this way - though many of them manage to somehow also be incredibly self-important, others not.
Yes, on all three counts - because this is what the concept of Absolute Truth entails: that it is all-pervasive, all-attractive, all-providing.
Most people who believe this then are wrong. They have been attracted to the wrong system. (note: I am not saying because they are not in mine, but rather because no system has a majority.)
The only problem I see with the pursuit of Absolute Truth is this:
If one sets out to find the Absolute Truth, one has to accept that one is currently in illusion and that the reason why one hasn't realized Absolute Truth yet is that one hasn't tried hard enough to find it.
So far I would say I go along, though I dislike the term Absolute Truth. I think the 'not trying hard enough' judgment is of no use unless the person is aiming similar blame at God, for example, and nothing else.
This is true, but it also leaves open the possibility that anything could be the Absolute Truth or lead to it - from shooting heroin, to sex, chocolate, art, Christianity, Scientology, anything - except that one hasn't tried hard enough so far. E.g. "I haven't done enough dope yet to realize that dope is the way to Absolute Truth. I must try harder." This is irrefutable, regardless how absurd it may seem.
Right. a lot of things are irrefutable. Another way of pointing out the problem with the intellect. And for all we know - another way of saying it is irrefutable - it does give some people what they really and truly want. This would not mean I would or should do it. Since I choose not to do it, not because I refuted it, my choosing NOT to pursue a certain path is performed not by intellect alone. I am arguing that that portion of us that chooses not to chase some paths that for all we know do in fact work - iow they are irrefutable - is the same part that can be empower to choose a direction.
So merely the pursuit of Absolute Truth as such leaves us with with a number of options that are either extremely difficult, seem impossible, morally repugnant, or otherwise absurd.
Perhaps that is part of what bothers me. The term makes me think of propositions about the nature of reality and myself and relationships and so on. I have had correct propositions in my head and only years later realized that I had the correct proposition in my head and it was not doing me a bit of good. I was so disconnected from it. Or misapplying it. Or had the wrong relationship with it. In fact I think the emphasis on this kind of knowledge is so pernicious it makes me want to respond in full denial of it and say such knowledge is virtually worthless. Instead I worded it in a meta comment, but the reaction is very strong in me.
Although the pursuit of the Absolute Truth seems noble above all others, one can only take it so far.
Seems very heady to me.
A timely meta-analyis, thank you!
You're welcome. I think I will take a break for a while.
To sort of sum up my position: I think the issue is not
what should I believe for the rest of my life?
but rather
what do I want to do today?
(with the inherent exploratory nature of today and potentially influenced by/inspired by doctrinal arguments)