How can a poster know what will be deemed as pornography?

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Look Hippityhop, you aren't getting any crap here to speak of. The rest of the members would simply like you to own up to the mistake you made and quit trying to slough responsibility off on others. You posted your sophomoric wet dreams here and you made inquiries as to others erotic preferences. In my opinion, Bells has a soft spot for you or you would have been permabanned a long time ago.


I didn't particularly care for you from the day we first interacted months ago but I couldn't really put my finger on why - just a certain feeling of "creepiness" which has now been echoed by others. Perhaps it's time for you to do some introspection and see if there isn't something in your behavior that might be at fault - instead of casting about in the minutiae of the rules or obscure reasoning of the the Mod's motives.

On the other hand, keep pushing it and you will f*ck up irrevocably and be gone forever - good riddance...

Believe me, I am not the one stopping him from being permabanned.

It's not up to me.

If it were, he'd have been gone a very long time ago.

Robittybob1 said:
This whole discussion is on the forum site designed to discuss these very issues, so butt out please, unless you have something constructive to say.
And you were given your answer.

It is not acceptable to post crap like that on this site. It is also not acceptable to stalk and sexually harass people on this site.

Or have you failed to notice that no one here agrees with you and you are the only person on this site to have an issue comprehending that?

Everyone else here gets it. You are the only one who does not.

I don't want to know why.

What I do want you to do is to respect what this site has asked of you and that is to stop.
 
Believe me, I am not the one stopping him from being permabanned.

It's not up to me.

If it were, he'd have been gone a very long time ago.


And you were given your answer.

It is not acceptable to post crap like that on this site. It is also not acceptable to stalk and sexually harass people on this site.

Or have you failed to notice that no one here agrees with you and you are the only person on this site to have an issue comprehending that?

Everyone else here gets it. You are the only one who does not.

I don't want to know why.

What I do want you to do is to respect what this site has asked of you and that is to stop.
That was a very interesting admission Bells. Thank you.
Obviously I'll think thrice before posting any questionable YT you can have my word on that.
That is what I agree to stop.
 
Not having an eject button for obvious cases like Rob is really annoying. The administration owes it to its members to lose dipshits like him the second they make their intentions known. He posts porn, he stalks and sexually harasses members, and we put him through the warning-ban cycle? Really? This guy is a cancer. Kick him out of the clubhouse already.
 
You're kidding right? Are you that much of a *us*y Bobbitty? Really? Too personal? Wow... Thin skinned, you are...
Who did I stalk? Who did I sexually harass? That is why it is personal.
And really it is up to Balerion to tell me since he made the claim. It is only not defamation if it was true.
This will get interesting!
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That was a very interesting admission Bells. Thank you.
Obviously I'll think thrice before posting any questionable YT you can have my word on that.
That is what I agree to stop.
Your word games won't wash here.

Do you think we are all too stupid to see what you just did there?

You were told that posting about your sexual dreams, what turns you on sexually and posting porn, etc is not acceptable on this site.

This is not for you to decide that you will just stop posting youtube video's that are of a questionable nature.

There was no admission. While it is not up to just me to ban you permanently, I do get a vote. My colleagues know exactly how I feel about your posting here.
 
Who did I stalk? Who did I sexually harass? That is why it is personal.
And really it is up to Balerion to tell me since he made the claim. It is only not defamation if it was true.
This will get interesting!
Site Rules:

As you said, it's not defamation if it's true.

True information about a person is not defamatory.

So in your case, it's not defamation. People only need to read through this thread to clearly see the answers to your questions.
 
Your word games won't wash here.

Do you think we are all too stupid to see what you just did there?

You were told that posting about your sexual dreams, what turns you on sexually and posting porn, etc is not acceptable on this site.

This is not for you to decide that you will just stop posting youtube video's that are of a questionable nature.

There was no admission. While it is not up to just me to ban you permanently, I do get a vote. My colleagues know exactly how I feel about your posting here.
Well at least I have agreed to one thing. I'll admit to that. That was an admission of a sort. I still want to finish my Beautiful Christian Music thread, showing the proof of God. Something you guys have said was impossible, but we will see.
I'll keep a low profile for a while until I get an agreement from James R if necessary, as you have already said I could approach him.
 
You still believe James will tell you that you can post your sexual dreams on this site...

You do realise he is the one who banned you for what you posted, yes?

But yeah, you tell James you want to post your sexual dreams here and we'll see how long you last.
 
As you said, it's not defamation if it's true.



So in your case, it's not defamation. People only need to read through this thread to clearly see the answers to your questions.
I don't believe they can read that at all for I have not admitted to sexual harassment or stalking. No they are allegations without evidence.

Let Balerion argue his case please since he is the one making the defamatory claim.
 
You still believe James will tell you that you can post your sexual dreams on this site...

You do realise he is the one who banned you for what you posted, yes?

But yeah, you tell James you want to post your sexual dreams here and we'll see how long you last.

It seems like you have some preconceived idea as to what I might say. My idea is to write the potential post as a word document first and then get someone to read it as Kittamaru suggested (run it past a moderator first).

When that happened James R said "What were you thinking?" as well as banning me. So he does want to know what I was thinking.
I had been reading my notes and wondering if I could ever post that stuff to the forum, so I tested the water with the infamous YouTube, and it bit me. So it transfers back to the OP question: How can a poster know what will be deemed as pornography?
The only way possible is to have it vetted first.
 
II would have thought the answer was fairly obvious. A good starting point might be "Is this something I might share with a complete stranger on the street."

Because you know what? In spite of any personal boundary issues you might have, that is effectively what we are to you.
 
No one here, not a single member of staff here, not a single member, wants to read about your sexual dreams. At all. We don't want to read it to see it is appropriate for posting, we don't want to even know about it, we don't want to vet it.

Seriously, what part of that don't you understand?

I mean honestly, what kind of fucked up person are you, what kind of pervert are you, that you have this pathological need to get people to read about your sexual dreams and sexual notes?

Do you understand what sexual harassment means?

We tell you we don't want you to post it here. We tell you we don't want to read it. We tell you it isn't appropriate. We tell you that we don't want to vet it for you because we don't want to read it. And you still threaten to send it to us to vet it because you are such a pervert that you want everyone on this site to read about it in the religious forum.. Do you have any idea how twisted that is?

Your continued threats to send it to moderators for vetting constitutes sexual harassment. Just as you sexually harassed me when I explicitly told you that it was not acceptable and you PM me right back and tell me what turns you on sexually and ask me if I get aroused by it. SEXUAL HARASSMENT.
 
No one here, not a single member of staff here, not a single member, wants to read about your sexual dreams. At all. We don't want to read it to see it is appropriate for posting, we don't want to even know about it, we don't want to vet it.

Seriously, what part of that don't you understand?

I mean honestly, what kind of fucked up person are you, what kind of pervert are you, that you have this pathological need to get people to read about your sexual dreams and sexual notes?

Do you understand what sexual harassment means?

We tell you we don't want you to post it here. We tell you we don't want to read it. We tell you it isn't appropriate. We tell you that we don't want to vet it for you because we don't want to read it. And you still threaten to send it to us to vet it because you are such a pervert that you want everyone on this site to read about it in the religious forum.. Do you have any idea how twisted that is?

Your continued threats to send it to moderators for vetting constitutes sexual harassment. Just as you sexually harassed me when I explicitly told you that it was not acceptable and you PM me right back and tell me what turns you on sexually and ask me if I get aroused by it. SEXUAL HARASSMENT.
Do the Forum Rules cover sexual harassment? How can you say the above things? There doesn't seem to be any natural logic to it.
Like if James was to vet it himself how can that have any affect on you? I read what you've just written and I feel a degree of compassion, you seem to be losing control, it seems irrational, so I am worried for you.
No one here, not a single member of staff here, not a single member, wants to read about your sexual dreams. At all. We don't want to read it to see it is appropriate for posting, we don't want to even know about it, we don't want to vet it.

Seriously, what part of that don't you understand?

What part don't I understand? Well how did you come to know the combined decision of all the moderators? Was it a PM from each of them? If so forward them to me please.

Do you understand what sexual harassment means?
Well It seems to be different from your's that's for sure. I will see what the site rules says and we'll go from there.

We tell you we don't want you to post it here. We tell you we don't want to read it. We tell you it isn't appropriate. We tell you that we don't want to vet it for you because we don't want to read it. And you still threaten to send it to us to vet it because you are such a pervert that you want everyone on this site to read about it in the religious forum.. Do you have any idea how twisted that is?
Prove to me who "we" is? I know one of the "we" is you. You've made that plain.

Your continued threats to send it to moderators for vetting constitutes sexual harassment.
It won't be moderators it will be "a moderator".
Just as you sexually harassed me when I explicitly told you that it was not acceptable and you PM me right back and tell me what turns you on sexually and ask me if I get aroused by it. SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

Where did you get that from?

Can you show me how you came to that preposterous conclusion, that I sexual harassed you? That to me seems so over the top I just about can't believe I'm reading it. But if you think it is true show me, for it definitely would be the last thing on my mind to upset or harass you Bells.

Sexual Harassment is quite a serious charge and I would think of leaving the forum if that really was the case.
Is flirtatious behaviour sexual harassment? No! don't be silly.

Maybe we need to made a new thread and put up all our PM communication in there and see if it stacks up?
That might be a bit scary for me at least. I agree to it, but it will need your agreement also.
 
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