Many cops' wives don't like guns and don't like to mess with them at all. Others have a healthy respect for guns, but don't like to mess with them. Some have been "trained", but it was years ago. Others are better with guns than their cop husbands!
Well I've a couple friends who are cops too, and they let their wives know how to handle a gun in case something ever happened. This is mainly due to if someone who they've arrested finds out where they live and wants to take retribution for being locked up, then they want everyone to know how to defend themselves. It's the same reason why all the smart cops keep a concealed weapon on them in case they bump into someone they've arrested in a public place. The smaller the town, the more important that is.
But yeah, not everyone is the same so they may not do so. I just assumed most do since I hear about it a lot on the 'net from various gun forums and the friends I know and also especially since most families that are around firearms a lot, teach their whole family, even their children, how to handle guns. Ya know, the lil kids in the south that even have their own customized guns and even daughters with their pink ar-15s and wives with their pink or purple sig sauer, heh. Once you're educated about them, you have a greater respect for em and won't touch the things if you don't like em, but will if the rare situation arises.
I would have to agree with this ...EXCEPT ....it might well be that he never let her handle the gun while it was loaded, so she just "assumed" that it wasn't loaded that time, and so was careless. I've seen this type of behavior with many people who are "at ease" around guns ...perhaps familiarity breeds some carelessness?
That's part of the neglect though. The #1 rule in firearms is to treat every gun as if it were loaded. Even as a little kid who grew up not around guns, when I'd have a toy gun, I was always told not to point that at people. Sure, it's not the same thing as a real gun and I'm sure she didn't point the gun at her hubby, but I would hope she would assume to treat every gun as if it were loaded, especially being the wife of a cop. Even if she wasn't trained the simple ways of handling a firearm by her hubby, he should have at least taught her SOME basics like never touch his gun or always treat it as if it were loaded. And if he asked her to bring him his gun without knowing how to handle it, call it neglect on both their parts. And why'd his duty handgun have a mag in it in the first place (assuming it was an accident and not intentional murder) before leaving the house? Either the hubby is pretty stupid for a LEO or the accident is one helluva strange accident that breaks all the various probable steps that could go wrong. Talk about luck, just too bad it wasn't the lottery she hit.
I disagree. If it was an accident, then it was an accident. Putting her in prison, while many "real criminals" walk free is the epitome of foolishness and, more to the point, does no good for anyone.
Well for neglect, yeah she shouldn't, but she should have to do an ungodly amount of hours for community service. Bake all of us cookies or something. She's already paid for not having her husband around anymore, as well as grief for any children she may have. However, if she's guilty of murder, fry the biatch.
And isn't that true of many of your talents? If you can fix computers or cars easily, don't you consider it somewhat elementary and wonder why others can do it, too? Same with guns.
Heh, yeah, but there's at least some sort of common sense involved. I guess common sense ain't so common anymore. I mean c'mon, it's a gun. She shouldn't have touched it period if she doesn't like or doesn't know how to use guns. If her hubby asked her to hand him his gun, she could have refused. Even if he started cussing her out and said "bitch, gimme my damned gun!", she should have put her foot down, heh.
I still find it highly unlikely though that she doesn't have the common sense involved to safely hold a gun. Not only that, but how many years was her hubby a cop and how many years did he have to do a quick lil few step lesson on how to handle a gun could he have said to her? Heck, even an "eww, get this thing away from me" type attitude where she picks the gun up by the tip with only her thumb and index finger and holding it out at arms length as the weight of the gun points the barrel downwards would have been a good enough way to give him the gun. Hopefully for those that don't know how to handle a gun, they all learn from this case or anyone else reading this thread. If you don't know how to handle a gun, don't touch the damn thing and assume all guns are loaded.
- N