No mass escaped.
In the LIGO analysis 3 solar mass were lost or escaped from the black-holes pair.
Some energy escaped which (per Einstein) has a mass equivalency.
But some masses were lost or escaped from a black hole. If nothing can escape a black hole, how energy can escape a black hole?
Small black holes can lose energy (which equals mass in this case) through evaporation.
I think you are talking about Hawking Radiation which is still not observed in reality.
I see no similarities. The forces acting on the two are very different.
In the proton-proton collision, they are accelerated towards speed of light before collision. Here also the two black holes were accelerated towards speed of light before collision.