Persol said:
I wasn't aware that an argument was required until you decided to start one.
Such dishonesty: the point is that if you're going to go out of your way to be offensive, you might as well have a point.
As for 'demanding more information' , you seem to be imagining things again
Again, you are dishonest:
And I understand that you think the story of your friend was racism (and agree that it probably was)... but I've had similar things happen to white friends of mine. I had a friend ticketed because he didn't want the cop to push (read: ram repeatedly) his car out of the median instead of waiting for the tow truck which was already called.
This was what I asked for some detail on. Your comparison seems faulted from the outset: your friend yammering at a cop, my friend not even getting a word out, polite or otherwise.
Tiassa said:
So fill in the detail, please; I'd love to see this comparison. Because right now it doesn't seem quite straight.
You chose to provide two
useless details: a mere assertion and a condition irrelevant to the question asked.
Yet you chose to single out another detail for response, and what a response you provided:
Tiassa: My friend got arrested without even being asked for license, insurance, or registration, for the "crime" of going through a yellow light in order to pull the car into a shopping-center parking lot before it stalled in the middle of the street.
Persol: So your friend says.
Instead of offering even the barest detail of what was going on, you chose to simply question the credibility of the story you chose to provide such an ill-fitting comparison for. As I noted, That was such a kind filling in of the detail.
From your earliest denials, I reminded you,
Situationally, it's inherent given your comparison. You never really argued that point; rather, you passed it over entirely in order to note that:
Persol said:
People lie when they do something stupid. It doesn't matter what color they are.
The point was made to question the example you chose to argue against. The only way it is relevant is if you establish what that something stupid
is. And at that point, the only thing you'd bothered to put on record was a "counterpoint" about arguing with a cop.
And you reiterated that point:
Tiassa: Given that you've got nothing but your own cynicism to stand on, Persol, one is given to wonder what your point is.
You have yet to provide any sense of detail, and your comparison reeks of presumptions upon which you insist despite what I tell you.
Persol: Saying that 'people lie' isn't cynicism... it's reality. People are more likely to lie when they do something that gets them in trouble. This isn't cynicism, but a simple observation.
So again, we're left with the presumption that the person in the example at hand must have done something and then lied about it.
Well, as I've reiterated in this topic, that's not the case. And all you've been able to put up is what works out to a convenient cycle.
1. "So your friend says." (e.g. Unreliable telling, a lie.)
2. People lie when they do something stupid.
3. Therefore black people claiming racism are lying?
a. Circumstances of example must include person doing something stupid.
b. I don't see it.
c. Perhaps Persol does, but we don't know because the what and how remain unestablished in favor of merely claiming discredit of the example.
d. What we're left with, then, is that this condition put before us in the example constitutes a lie, and we must reasonably presume, in order to not be completely arbitrary in this matter, that
all similar circumstances alleged are lies.
e. Thus,
Situationally, it is inherent in your argument that black people claiming racism are lying.
(1) This is easy enough to disarm: provide the device that constitutes "something stupid" or something that makes him "more likely to lie" because he has done "something that gets him into trouble".
4. But since Persol insists that the above--3.e--is false, but only insists and does not make the case, we're left starting over that all of this is based on cynicism.
And in all of that you've been reluctant to provide
any substantial argument, merely pretending offense whenever I took the easy route and argued on your cynical level.
So I remind you, Persol,
dishonesty is not an ethical argument; leave it elsewhere.
Persol said:
The funny thing is that my point still stands. The original point was and still is "He however wasn't raised to consider himself a minority. He just blames it on the jack-ass cop."
Actually, the funny thing is the dishonesty of that statement. And, actually, it's not all that funny.
First off, your "original point" is, as I have repeatedly noted, based on an ill-suited comparison. You have yet to establish the validity of the comparison upon which you assert your--(
ahem!)--"original point". Secondly, that's your
second point. Your first point was equally ill-suited: "
And I can't say it was my black half that got me falsly arrested.... that doesn't mean it was a case of racism." Your point was no comparison at all, since you've given no detail whatsoever. I
tried to reassure you that yes, in this case it
was an issue of racism, but your cynicism simply would not allow you to move beyond the rather petty argument you chose to have, would it?
Because why on earth would you try to make the concession that it was probably racism, and then go on to claim to have had a white friend go through something "similar"? You provided an example that, even for its scant detail, was irrelevant except for your running presumption that the black man complaining of racism must necessarily be lying.
Had you provided an example that was actually "similar", I would have had no cause for offense and rather could have left you to wallow in your cynicism.
Yet you're left standing on a revised original point that still has no relevance to the example you chose for argument.
Come on, will it really kill you to be honest?
At this point you took it upon yourself to take offense. I don't know your friend, and I really could care less if he lied or not. My original point wasn't that lied. It was that just because he said it was racism doesn't mean it actually was. And yes, one of the possibilities is that he lied. I'm sorry to notify you of the fact that even your friends are capable of that.
And this is where you're just downright rude:
Don't you think I already considered that?
Just maybe?
But no. Your
cynicism won't allow that kind of trust, will it? So in order to explain yourself you call into question
any black person claiming racism. Really, that's just
classy, Persol. All of this for your cynicism?
In case you actually forgot, the topic of this thread was "everyone experiences racism". A statement about the perception of racism is right on topic, regardless of how offended you decide to feel.
Perhaps if you made an
honest and
substantial discussion of the perception of racism, I wouldn't find your dishonesty and lack of substance so offensive.
Really, you could have picked this issue with Wes: How does he know it's really, truly racism? Are we sure he's not mistaking some of the peripheral flak by extending the few true racists he knows to cover more people than they actually represent? What point would there be to questioning the integrity of such a premise?
You chose to take it up with me. You took the
least important point in a post and made an issue about it; and I gotta admit, it's a pretty effective diversion. Racism doesn't cost anyone since it's all a lie, anyway? So we don't need to consider the costs of racism, do we?
Is your life so devoid of race-politik that you have no examples from your own experience to illustrate your point about perceptions of racism? Seriously, is your only way to advance your point to seek to divert dishonestly for the sake of egotistical cynicism?
Just because you claim to be recycling doesn't mean you're not squatting a biscuit on the lawn. And that everyone must defecate now and then simply does not suggest that you should not keep it to your own lawn.
If it means that much to you, why can't you be honest about it? And yes, I really do think you're being deliberate about this; no, I don't see an accident of circumstance in our disagreement.