Pandaemoni
Valued Senior Member
But, ...what about those people on the other side of the country or the world? What if they don't agree with our system of ethics? Is it majority rule? Is it somehow forcing others to conform even tho' they don't believe in our system? Beat 'em with sticks until they surrender?
It depends on your system. A particular system may (but need not) make you militant about others who have not adopted or do not obey it. Many people are very much taken aback and judgmental about those on the other side of the world (or across time) who disagree with them. Imagine that King Solomon appeared in the modern day U.S.A...along with his seven hundred wives and three hundred concubines. I think he'd find we looked askance at polygamy and considered the concubines adultery, in a way that the ancient Jews did not.
Other systems tolerate differences more readily, but all (I suspect) have their limits. I'd be cool letting Solomon keep his wives and concubines myself, but if he started killing Palestinians so Israel could have that land back, I'd want him locked up. Polygamy's not my thing, but I can accept it in other systems. Murder is not my thing and I cannot abide it in other systems.
Similarly, *all* systems need some degree of tolerance, or else your society will not function. No two people have precisely the same rules for proper conduct, and you cannot have people marching off to war because one likes Gossip Girl and another thinks that show is impermissible smut.
One that's being discussed on another forum right here on sciforums is that of Indonesians taking 11-12 year old girls as wives. We, in the west, don't agree that system of ethics. So what do we do then?
For me, that falls into my gray zone. I'd think the best solution is to voice why that makes me uncomfortable and then, if they disagree, as they probably will, shut up about it until I have some more concrete reason to object than "a funny feeling."
Others may well see this as the exploitation of children and want us to ostracize Indonesia until the practice stops. IMO, that's extreme because 11-12 years old has long been the world standard for when women marry. Mary, mother of Jesus, was likely not far off that age when God impregnated her, because that was normal marrying age at the time. Despite a long history of marriages to child brides (usually to adult males, though, of course, the marriages would not be consummated until after menstruation).
If the Indonesians have a different system than ours, and it's agreed to by their society, how can it be wrong? And if it isn't wrong, then how can ours be right?
In my opinion, that is akin to saying "In Rome the speed limit is only 25 kph, but in London it's 45 kph...if Rome's isn't wrong, how can London's be right?" or "In 1800, the most popular flavor of ice cream in the U.S. was 'oyster' and now it's 'chocolate,' why were the people in 1800 so wrong?" There is no "right" and "wrong" save to the extent it promotes or detracts from stability. If you go 45 kph in Rome where everyone else is doing 25, and you will be the one who's wrong. What leads to stability is what best fits the local system, and if the majority of the locals believe in something that influences the best fit in that area. An ocean away, where different things are believed, differed rules are needed.
In an objective sense, there is no right and wrong at all. There is, however, a set of a large number of ethical systems that can promote stability and many of them are so different from one another and two societies adopting different standards could not long live side by side. The key to forming a society is that most people in the society hold standards that are not mutually incompatible with others maintained in their immediate area. Luckily, humans are natural mimics, and so local populations tend to have relatively closely related ethical systems in any given time period.
See? The thing that gets me about ethics is that it's used in such worldwide conversations, like on national tv news programs, etc., as if it's a universal ideal. And I just can't and don't buy that. "We" can't keep trying to force others to conform to our way of thinking or we're going to have nothing but problems in the world ...more than we already have.
It's not universal, I agree. It's more like temperature. That it is 55º in Manhattan does not mean it's 55º at the same time in Newark. It may be 52º, or 60º. If you went from Newark to Bridgeater NJ, you'd expect Bridgewater's temperature to be close to Newark's. Then you go to Princeton, then Philadelphia, then Gettysburg, then Harrisburg, and so on. On each individual step of a few miles, you don't see very much temperature variation. By the time you make it a few thousand miles though, the difference between the the new location and the temperature in New York night be substantial.
For all the talk about "love everyone", I'm beginning to see that our world is more divided now on issues than ever before in history. And what makes it worse, is that distance is no longer a natural isolator. Conflict is now not just small communities or cities or states, it's now spread all over the globe!
I agree with that too, though the realization of the difference has been around for a while. The birth of the "white man's burden" and the travels of missionaries around the globe was the realization that so many non-whites had differing notions about how to live their lives. Unfortunately there is at present just enough separation for "intolerant" ethical regimes to take root in a population and not enough to make it uneconomical for those holding such positions to lash out at others, thousands of miles away. It is still mostly uneconomical though. No al Qaeda strike is ever going to fundamentally change the ethical positions of people in the U.S., so any cost they incur to reach the goal of mankind us change our ways is money wasted in that regard. Unfortunately, they do believe that such activities earn them rewards in heaven, which is an irrefutable belief, and seems to make such things more sensible (if you agree with them).
To a materialist society like ours, spending resources on intangible benefits is not something likely to last long. It's hard to say whether the fire will burn out for them though. (That said, statistically speaking, I am more likely to be killed by lightning than by terrorists, so how much time should I devote to worrying about them?)