Fair enough - I guess for me, if I had the choice between having it done as an infant and having it done as an adult, I'd prefer to have it done as an infant - faster recovery time, no recollection of the pain, and no awkward calls to the boss explaining why i can't come into work - the obvious problem being, of course, that an infant cannot make that decision.
Informed choice and informed consent.
As an adult, you are doing it with eyes wide open as to the risks involved and most importantly, you are making that decision for yourself. It is your body and your choice. That choice isn't being taken from you by someone who wants your penis to look just like your father's penis, for example.
Indeed, and I can understand the sentiment there. I guess since I've grown up in an environment where it was "always done", it being a choice never really occurred to, nor bothered, me before.
It takes up to 10 days or more to heal. There are very few pain reliever's available for home use for newborns. And babies who are in pain are stressed, which affects their sleeping and most importantly, their feeding. If a newborn loses too much weight or isn't able to feed properly, it opens it up to other complications. It has a flow on effect. Not to mention having to change dressings and keep the area clean for the time it takes to heal, the increased risk of infection to the penis itself.
Having not had a kid myself, and only vague memories of my little brothers birth - are most newborns home within ten days? I would have thought baby and mother would stay in the hospital to recover, especially if any kind of surgery (such as circumcision) had been done?
Yes. There is always a risk with any surgical procedure. With the religious procedure, that risk increases because of the fact that the mouth is used to suck up the blood.
Wait, what? Why? That... the human mouth is disgustingly filthy, especially to a newborn without a developed immune system! I would imagine no "professional" doctor would do such a thing but egads that just sounds like a bad idea all around!
As I noted above, babies have contracted herpes and died as a result of it. Also when you consider that the penis itself continues to develop and the nerve endings in the foreskin and the penis continues to develop after birth, why would you want to take that risk?
That's part of why I was curious - if the nerve endings aren't fully developed, and the penis itself is still growing, wouldn't it be better to have it done before all that is completed? It was my understanding that doing so while the development is ongoing would reduce the chance of any kind of permanent scar tissue; again, that's just the understanding I had looking at it from my limited knowledge on the subject.
There is
always a risk of infection or complications, even in
surgical procedures that are done correctly.
And remember, these are all preventable and avoidable because unless it is medically necessary, this is all voluntary..
The situation in Africa and
the risk to baby boys, boys and men in Africa is even greater.
Mm... all good points... again, I guess it's odd for me because it was just the norm - far as I'm aware, it wasn't even done in our household for religious reasons insomuch as it was, well... just what was done.
The HIV/AIDS studies were flawed from the start. I find the use of the findings from those studies without a warning about how flawed they were, to be dishonest. The risk of penile cancer is minute. And it is exceptionally rare especially in developed countries where we have better hygiene and clean running water. Even without that, the risk is so small that the medical associations around the world do not recommend circumcision to prevent it. They won't even recommend circumcision to reduce the risk of HIV/AIDS. To prevent that, the use of condoms is always better and educating people about using them will always be more effective. As for UTI's, again, rare and it's like less than 1% and it isn't a 100% prevention. Once again, proper hygiene is key and pediatric associations around the world will not recommend circumcision to prevent UTI's. I'd rather wash my kids and teach them about hygiene rather than risk it. If they choose to be circumcised when they are adults, that will be entirely their choice. As a parent, I was not going to take that choice away from them permanently. It is their body and thus, their choice.
Exactly - it seems like it is one of those things that has gained prevalence for one reason or another, and now is continued to be done simply because it is "normal" to be done. Hardly a good reason to continue with something if there is no actual medical validation for doing so.
There will be arguments for and against, there is for just about anything. But frankly, people seem to believe that because it is their child, restrictions on what they can do to their children is infringing on what many seem to believe is their god given right. There is a reason why pediatric and medical associations around the world do not recommend it. I think ignoring the concerns of doctors for purely cosmetic reasons or religious and cultural reasons is insane personally. I personally do not understand how or why parents would take such risks with their newborns for something that is not medically necessary. Public hospitals here will not even do them if it is not medically necessary and they will exhaust all other options before opting for surgery. Many private hospitals are also the same.
Indeed - it is odd what people will do for "cosmetic" reasons... I mean, we have newborn "optional" surgery (as we are discussing now), and then there's:
Cultural "norms" are powerful things I guess... *shakes head*
For more crazy stuff people do for "beauty":
http://www.oddee.com/item_98514.aspx