If you are feeling flawed, then don't blame me.
Point me to evidence that a particle's wave will collapse to a point.
Points represent a location in relation and relative to some inertial frame of reference. Now you can place a particle-wave at that point location. But a particle or wave is not a point. A point is a location, a point as a particle is a myth.
The reason that we have point particles is that they make for good simplifying of description of systems.
For example, I can describe an enclosed volume of space that is filled with Nitrogen gas. I can model the mathematics and describe: Pressure, Force, velocity, velocity squared inertia, and energy equation of state. Now I can describe entirely this system assuming the Nitrogen atoms are point particles. When in actually a Nitrogen atom is made of seven electons, seven protons, and seven neutrons.
You are mistaken the concept for point particles as being real entities, when the purpose for using point particles is for simplying the mathematics and description of the system. When you narrow your view down to one Nitrogen atom you will determine that it is not a point.