California: Prohibition on gay marriage

Baron, you could have said the exact same thing about black men who wanted to marry white women a hundred years ago. Hell, 40 years ago, in some states. And honestly, in order for marriage to be what it is to you today, a mutual agreement between two consenting adults, marriage had to change from a previous definition. So drop the "status quo" bullshit.

This isn't asking for special rights. It's asking for inclusion into the same institution. You would never want to marry a man, Baron (or would you?), so to say that the rights are equal is false. It isn't. Gay people can't just switch sides and decide they want to fall in love with people from the opposite sex. It isn't a choice. It isn't a lifestyle.

But the real bottom line here is that we, in 2008, revoked a civil right. Not only that, but we put civil rights up for popular vote! That would be like putting slavery up for a vote! Or women's sufferage! Or black sufferage!

On the same day this country took a great leap forward, we took an equally great leap back. Nicely done, America. How it's possible to be both proud and ashamed at the same time...
 
They do not want special rights, they want EQUAL rights.

They already have equal rights! If gays are males, then they have the same rights as hetero males ....neither can marry other males. How is that not equal under that law?

See? Gays want SPECIAL rights ....above and beyond that of other people. And it's all because of the way they like to have sex.

Baron Max
 
Baron, you could have said the exact same thing about black men who wanted to marry white women a hundred years ago.

That's true ...and according to the laws and the Constitution, with blacks being recognized as "humans", black males were legally permitted to marry women. But you will, of course, note that the law recognized that black men were equal to white men ...NOT equal to gay men!

This isn't asking for special rights. It's asking for inclusion into the same institution. ...

Are gay males "men", or are they something else? If they are men, then gay men have the exact same rights as regular men. But, no, that's not good enough for gays, ...they want special rights above and beyond that of regular men. That ain't very nice.

Gay people can't just switch sides and decide they want to fall in love with people from the opposite sex. It isn't a choice. It isn't a lifestyle.

So that statement leads me to think that gay males aren't actually "men" ...that they're something else. If so, what? If gay males aren't men, then we should work to get them equal rights under the law. But, oops, they already have than, don't they?! Yeah, they do!

But the real bottom line here is that we, in 2008, revoked a civil right. Not only that, but we put civil rights up for popular vote! That would be like putting slavery up for a vote! Or women's sufferage! Or black sufferage!

No, the Californians did NOT revoke a civil right, they voted on what the term "marriage" means, that's all. Gays want it to mean one thing, regular people, the majority of voters, want it to mean a legal union between men and women. Ain't no civil rights involved. Marriage ain't no civil right.

On the same day this country took a great leap forward, we took an equally great leap back.

Interesting. I believe that it was just the opposite! A nation voted, apparently, to void some/many of our freedoms so as to become more socialistic and/or communistic. And at the same time, in California, the voters finally agreed on what marriage really means.

Baron Max
 
California may be a special case, don't you think?

Indubitably. As such, it makes poor material for drawing generalizations about the rest of the country.

How many other states passed bans on gay marriage at the same time?

2, IIRC: Arizona and Florida. Connecticut, on the other hand, passed a law recognizing gay marriage.

Do you think your demographic analysis applies to all of those states in the same way?

Not Arizona, although something similar might have been at work in Florida. I'm not as familiar with the details in those states. But I'm pretty sure the title of this thread refers to one state in particular.

Another interesting fact: the original California gay-marriage ban was passed by a similar ballot measure a few years back, and received over 60% of the vote. That was struck down by the state Supreme Court, leading to prop 8, which amends the Constitution. Notably, prop 8 received only 52.5% of the vote. So, if we extrapolate a trend from this, we see support for gay marriage is actually growing dramatically in CA. In ten year's time, another generation of old, stodgy churchgoers will die off (and the presidential candidates will probably be less energizing to certain anti-gay voters) and we will be able to forget all about this embarassing fiasco.
 
Indubitably. As such, it makes poor material for drawing generalizations about the rest of the country.



2, IIRC: Arizona and Florida. Connecticut, on the other hand, passed a law recognizing gay marriage.



Not Arizona, although something similar might have been at work in Florida. I'm not as familiar with the details in those states. But I'm pretty sure the title of this thread refers to one state in particular.

Another interesting fact: the original California gay-marriage ban was passed by a similar ballot measure a few years back, and received over 60% of the vote. That was struck down by the state Supreme Court, leading to prop 8, which amends the Constitution. Notably, prop 8 received only 52.5% of the vote. So, if we extrapolate a trend from this, we see support for gay marriage is actually growing dramatically in CA. In ten year's time, another generation of old, stodgy churchgoers will die off (and the presidential candidates will probably be less energizing to certain anti-gay voters) and we will be able to forget all about this embarassing fiasco.

But even if prop 8 had not passed couldn't it just have been put on the ballot in 2010? It seems like this issue would just go back and forth until someone (the court) makes people accept something they may not want to accept. Like segregation, if that had been put to a vote, especially in the South, they would still be voting on it every two years. I doubt integration would have passed, without the court's (and President's) say so.
 
But even if prop 8 had not passed couldn't it just have been put on the ballot in 2010?

Indeed.

It seems like this issue would just go back and forth until someone (the court) makes people accept something they may not want to accept.

Except that there's no court in a position to do that. The CA Supreme Court ruled that the previous ban on gay marriage way unconstitutional: so a ballot measure was used to change the constitution. Now there's nothing the court can say about it. This problem will persist until the silly practice of allowing a constitutional amendment by a simple majority of voters is ended.
 
It would seem to me that if a vote was taken and a law was repealed then that should be the way it is legally speaking. If on the other hand a new law was voted upon that approves gay marriages then it would be legal. So the thing to do, the way I see it, is to get a proposition onto the next ballot in the state allowing gay marriages and see how many people vote for making it legal once again. Nothing can undo what has happened but the future remains open for change IF people want that change to happen. No matter what happens there should be only respect for the laws that are in place until they are overturned.
 
baron said:
They already have equal rights! If gays are males, then they have the same rights as hetero males ....neither can marry other males. How is that not equal under that law?
You seem to have overlooked females, in your imagined world of all human beings equal: females can marry males, thereby gaining whatever legal benefits are to be found in such an arrangement.

Anyone legally forbidden to marry any of an entire demographic class of people from which someone else can choose a spouse has been denied equal protection under the law.
 
But, Tiassa, gays ARE being treated equal under the law! Hetero males can't marry other males ....gay males can't marry other males. That's perfectly equal under the law ...there's no "separate but equal" involved at all.

Precisely.

Homosexual males cannot marry males, heterosexual males cannot marry males. No discrimination against homosexuals there.

However, females can marry males but not females, while males can marry females but not males. So if you want to get technical, the marriage laws aren't discriminatory against homosexuals, they are discriminatory against both genders.

I think that's what Tiassa was previously trying to get across to you, but you probably just skimmed over his posts. And who could blame you?
 
You seem to have overlooked females, in your imagined world of all human beings equal:...

No, not overlooked, just required more typing than I wanted to do ...plus almost all those responding are gay males.

Anyone legally forbidden to marry any of an entire demographic class of people from which someone else can choose a spouse has been denied equal protection under the law.

Incest? Age discriminatory laws? I think if you looked around carefully, you'd find umpty-eleven highly discriminatory laws that we live with every day and think nothing of it.

But I still revert to one of my main concerns about same-sex marriage ...that homosexuals want laws changed or want special rights ONLY because of the way they like to have sex. Now, to me, that just seems ....ahh, ....?

Baron Max
 
They already have equal rights! If gays are males, then they have the same rights as hetero males ....neither can marry other males. How is that not equal under that law?

See? Gays want SPECIAL rights ....above and beyond that of other people. And it's all because of the way they like to have sex.

Baron Max

It's not about the right to marry males, eejit, it's about the right to marry the one you love whether male or female, heteros have that right, gays do not, therefore they do not have equal rights.
 
Indeed.



Except that there's no court in a position to do that. The CA Supreme Court ruled that the previous ban on gay marriage way unconstitutional: so a ballot measure was used to change the constitution. Now there's nothing the court can say about it. This problem will persist until the silly practice of allowing a constitutional amendment by a simple majority of voters is ended.

The United States Supreme Court can, but if they find it unconstitutional then it will be legalized everywhere, or states would have to edit their constitution because it conflicts with the nation's constitution. Which is a no no.
 
Incest? Age discriminatory laws? I think if you looked around carefully, you'd find umpty-eleven highly discriminatory laws that we live with every day and think nothing of it.

Baron Max

Any group that feels discriminated against is free to protest for equal rights as they see fit. You will never change anything if you don't let anyone know how you feel. Unfortunately it doesn't work out so well for children because it seems like most people just regard them as talking pets.
 
And the Max goes trolling on

Baron Max said:

But, Tiassa, gays ARE being treated equal under the law! Hetero males can't marry other males ....gay males can't marry other males. That's perfectly equal under the law ...there's no "separate but equal" involved at all.

One would not be wrong to wonder why it is you simply repeat yourself over and over, and never actually address the counterpoint.

• An inherently sexist standard is not "perfectly non-discriminatory". You've made the point yourself—at present, one is not allowed to marry the person they love because he or she is the wrong sex. This is sex discrimination. Inherently. (#2082606/32)

• Telling someone they cannot marry the person they love because that person is the wrong sex is problematic in terms of equal protection under the law. (#2046208/294)

• The "precise" equality you describe is still discriminatory. You might as well justify anti-miscegenation laws by saying that since black [men]° can't marry white women and white men can't marry black women, it is precisely equal.

Disqualifying a partner from marriage based solely on his or her sex is discriminatory. (#2050170/308)

• In 2004, twelve states voted to define marriage as something that occurs between a man and woman, effectively limiting the right of certain partners to marry on the basis of their sex. Some of these laws are now facing constitutional challenges, and are not expected to fare well. Indeed, a ban on gay marriage was struck down last year in Iowa, of all places. How this sort of thing happens pertains to the various state constitutions and, in the longer view, the idea of equal protection. That latter is an issue I've already made note of, although you have yet to offer any substantial consideration of the point ....

.... The Connecticut decision was inevitable. The first section of the state's constitution is prohibits exclusive privileges to any group, and the last is an equal protection clause. As noted, the decision in Connecticut was based on that equal protection clause .... (#2052784/372)​

So, let us go through the issue more thoroughly, despite your determination to not read such arguments:

The right to marry goes beyond the mere fact of the opposite sex. Consider for a moment, my daughter. When she grows up, she may decide to get married. She, according to you, has the right to marry a male. And this is true. However, her right goes beyond that. Let us imagine for a moment that she falls in love with some man that I disapprove of for some reason. Can you cite any legal grounds short of the marriage itself being illegal (e.g., bigamy, incest, juvenile partner°) by which I can forcibly prevent the marriage from going forward? Certainly, I may attempt to persuade her, but I have no legal leverage by which to force her to not marry. Thus, not only does she have the right to marry a male, she also has the right to marry the person she loves, a person of her choosing. Recent discriminatory laws defining marriage do not address love and choice, merely the sex of the partners. And this is a vital point: we cannot force our children to marry, and we cannot force them to not marry. Barring some pre-existing conflict with the law, there is no legal device to force a person to not marry the person they love, the person of their choosing. If the right to marry was based solely on the sex of the partner, heterosexuals would not be entirely free to marry the person of their choosing. Presently, this is a right heterosexuals have that homosexuals are denied. Furthermore, in order for a homosexual to marry, he or she must consummate the marriage by having sex they do not desire. Of course, since you have previously rejected sexual consent as inane, one can easily see why this might not matter to you. But sexual consent does matter to the law. If one wishes the marriage to be fully valid, it must be consummated. Therefore, the right of the homosexual to marry a person of the opposite sex places an obligation of sexual duress on the homosexual. The fulfillment of a right cannot hinge on an obligation of duress. Your constant repetition of equality between heterosexuals and homosexuals overlooks these points entirely.​

Now, if it is something you are capable of responding to, then by all means go ahead and do so. If not, find a new argument.

It seems that, for gays, their desires for strange, perverted sex is what defines them as men or women. Ain't that odd?

You are in error, sir, unless you would like to explain how sexual intercourse defines a person as a man or a woman. Under the vast majority of circumstances, the difference between males and females is primarily defined by a genetic expression.

What other group of people is defined strictly by how they like to have sex?

Heterosexuals.

I like to fuck knotholes in fence posts ......and by god, I think I should be allowed to marry those fence posts!

Demonstrate the ability of a fence post to give reasonable consent to marry, and you'll have something that very nearly resembles a point.

Your standard of equality is invested in discrimination between the sexes.
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Notes:

° black [men] — This reflects a correction of a typographical error occurring in this post that has not been corrected in the original.

° bigamy, incest, juvenile partner — Before you make the predictable rejoinder, consider that I have addressed each of these conditions in the past (age considerations in #2047364/301, polygamy in #2081924/16, and incest most recently in #2082112/21), and you have offered no significant response. Do not digress, do not evade: simply address the issue.
 
False.

I find it unbelievable that everybody jumps on Baron's nonsenscial statements, while letting the above absurdities slide.

It is not in the least false. In general gay men may enjoy looking at a straight guy's ass but they have no more interest in sex with a straight guy than the straight guy has in having sex with them.

Do you think having sex with some one who isn't interested in you is some kind of prized interaction? Do you go around seeking to have sex with people who aren't interested in you? If you are a guy do you hang around in lesbian bars trying to pick up lesbians?

Sure if you go to a gay bar you might get hit on. There is a phrase "no thanks" which you might try using and if you are a homophobe why are you hanging out in gay bars any way?

But as some one with no confusion about what I like I can tell you that this straight guy has zero problems hanging with gay guys. Your fears of losing your ass virginity are unfounded. You'll have to actually want to have gay sex to get some.
 
(Baron Max): "It seems that, for gays, their desires for strange, perverted sex is what defines them as men or women. Ain't that odd?"

You are in error, sir, unless you would like to explain how sexual intercourse defines a person as a man or a woman. Under the vast majority of circumstances, the difference between males and females is primarily defined by a genetic expression.

Heteros don't have the need to use their sexual desires as a way of defining themselves - nature and society and normal male-female relations do it for them. I.e., it's normal and natural.

However, as you can readily see on the news, gays are constantly seeking the approval of society for their own perverted, abnormal sexual desires. They can't just have sex and leave it at that, they have to try to force society to approve of that sex by allowing marriage!

That strange, perverted method of enjoying sex is what defines gays! And gays are, apparently, nothing but regular ol' males(or females) ...EXCEPT... for their way of enjoying sex. See?

Baron Max
 
It's not about the right to marry males, eejit, it's about the right to marry the one you love whether male or female, heteros have that right, gays do not, therefore they do not have equal rights.

Ahh, so a woman has the "right" to marry her father? A son has the "right" to marry his mother? A sister has the "right" to marry her brother? When did that become legal?

By the way, "love" has nothing whatsoever to do with marriage contracts.

Baron Max
 
That's true ...and according to the laws and the Constitution, with blacks being recognized as "humans", black males were legally permitted to marry women. But you will, of course, note that the law recognized that black men were equal to white men ...NOT equal to gay men!

No, actually, black males were not permitted to marry. Neither were black women. They were considered property, which gave them no rights whatsoever. And even when they were given their freedom, they were not permitted to marry white women. Of course, this is unconstitutional.

Are gay males "men", or are they something else? If they are men, then gay men have the exact same rights as regular men. But, no, that's not good enough for gays, ...they want special rights above and beyond that of regular men. That ain't very nice.

Actually, legalizing gay marriage would mean that straight men could also marry men. So nobody would be getting special rights.

So that statement leads me to think that gay males aren't actually "men" ...that they're something else. If so, what? If gay males aren't men, then we should work to get them equal rights under the law. But, oops, they already have than, don't they?! Yeah, they do!


No, they don't. You know as well as I do that it isn't fair that gays can't get married.

No, the Californians did NOT revoke a civil right, they voted on what the term "marriage" means, that's all. Gays want it to mean one thing, regular people, the majority of voters, want it to mean a legal union between men and women. Ain't no civil rights involved. Marriage ain't no civil right.

They revoked a right. Even if you are convicted of murder and sentenced to life (or death) in prison, you can still get married. In prison! So what we're basically saying is that it's OK for convicted felons (which includes pedophiles, murderers, rapists, etc..) to marry, but not gays?

Interesting. I believe that it was just the opposite! A nation voted, apparently, to void some/many of our freedoms so as to become more socialistic and/or communistic. And at the same time, in California, the voters finally agreed on what marriage really means.

They didn't agree. A majority won. And just barely. And just out of curiosity, I'd love to know what freedoms we've voted away by voting for Obama.
 
Have you anything other than foolishness to offer?

Baron Max said:

Heteros don't have the need to use their sexual desires as a way of defining themselves ....

And yet they do: Marriage should be for hets only, as I understand the het argument argument. Anyone who wants to be married must first be heterosexual.

... nature and society and normal male-female relations do it for them. I.e., it's normal and natural

Natural is defined by nature. Homosexuality occurs in nature, therefore it is natural. Normal, in the context of this argument, is a statistical reality. Similarly, one might say that blue eyes and pale skin is not normal, and not natural.

However, as you can readily see on the news, gays are constantly seeking the approval of society ....

Any marginalized, oppressed minority tends to accent the basis of its oppression. During the civil rights movement of the mid-twentieth century, skin color was the defining attribute. Throughout the twentieth century, as women struggled to be treated equally under the law, their womanhood was the defining attribute.

Now, as people seek to exclude a group of people based on the sex of their partners, it is expected that the very point upon which they are excluded—e.g., their sexuality—should be brought into focus. If being gay had never been something to be ashamed of, to be hidden away, or even institutionalized in hospitals and jails, you might have a point about the assertion that being gay is nothing to be ashamed of.

That strange, perverted method of enjoying sex is what defines gays! And gays are, apparently, nothing but regular ol' males(or females) ...EXCEPT... for their way of enjoying sex. See?

Take it up with nature, Max.

Ahh, so a woman has the "right" to marry her father? A son has the "right" to marry his mother? A sister has the "right" to marry her brother? When did that become legal?

Yes, keep repeating the point without ever addressing the counterpoint, which you have been offered at least twice and reminded of most recently only yesterday.

By the way, "love" has nothing whatsoever to do with marriage contracts.

Why, then, do people get married in the first place? The pretense of love is the alleged basis for marriage in the United States.

Any other absurdities you'd like to throw into the discussion?
 
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