Actually I think you are right, I keep the parts I feel in my heart to be true, but is different in what you say “throwing out the rest”. Because if I encounter a part on which I disagree on, or I just don’t understand, I don’t just throw it away, but I try to understand it better, and understand the cause of that statement being in the Bible in the first place.
I have my own opinion and feelings about things that nobody has told me to believe, but I do, because of personal experience. One of the things I believe the most, and got me away from religion in the first place is the ignorance in the discrimination of woman. The Bible was not written by the masters that they talk about, the Bible was written by men, men with big egos.
God would not ever feel threatened by woman who has multiple partners in her life, you know who would feel threatened with such a woman? A chauvinist man, and it seems to be the pattern in the chauvinist society of the time on which the Bible was written.
I have seen the beauty of women, their role in society, and most men can’t stand women being as intelligent and imaginative as men. In the times of the writers of the Bible, women weren’t even allowed to read and write, not even learn anything… I think you should first imagine yourself as a woman in those times, how stupid were the men who condemn them to ignorance. By shutting down women’s imagination, you are shutting down half of the imagination of mankind.