But taking it to limit is the point where the observer/clock crosses the event horizon. The event horizon is the limit for general relativity.
Part of the problem here is the definition of the event horizon. Is it the last location from which light can escape the gravity well, or is it the location where light no longer can escape?
While Farsight may understand what he is arguing, I don't think his approach is a good one. As it is clear that it becomes confused by one's FoR.
I believe what Farsight is trying to argue, is that as a clock moves into a gravity well it slows down. . . That much we have some evidence of. Additionally what he appears to be saying is that at the event horizon the clock will have slowed to a complete stop. Just outside the event horizon an observer would still see his clock ticking away as normal, be that very slowly when viewed from some distance. The difference is how one defines the event horizon.
You framed the definition as follows, "
The event horizon is the limit for general relativity." which suggests that GR remains valid at the event horizon.
Reframing that sentence to be consistent with what it appears Farsight is suggesting, you would have something like, "
The limit for general relativity, lies just outside the event horizon."
He goes further to suggest that, because at or just within the event horizon the clock stops, the black hole itself must be thought of in a manner consistent with the frozen star model. And somehow this is a product of GR.
One of problem I see with this, is that all of the evidence we have that supports time dilation, or clock rates relative to a gravitational field, is based on the electromagnetic characteristics of atoms... i.e. in a simplistic way electron transitions. We have no direct evidence how the strong and weak nuclear forces are affected by a gravity well, other than to say that they seem to be far more stable than an electron's relationship with the nucleus.
Setting aside speed of light issues, it is not difficult to conceive of a point in a strong gravity well where the emission of photons is suppressed and that, that location coincides with what we refer to as the event horizon. . . But that in itself does not support the frozen star model, because it does not say anything about how the strong and weak nuclear forces behave. Even if one continues this reasoning to the point where the integrity of the proton were disrupted, what then of its constituent parts? Do quarks just stop all zitterbewegung motion at the same point that electrons stop emitting photons?
In the end from the perspective of GR your original statement (setting aside the debate defining the character of an event horizon), "
The event horizon is the limit for general relativity." should settle the argument from the perspective of GR. Which is GR can tell us nothing of the character of what lies within the event horizon, other than it results in a gravity well.., outside the event horizon, that so far appears to be consistent with the predictions of GR.