*sigh*
Sorry, JamesR, but I find that post of yours to be rather unfair, unwarranted, and leaving a rather sour taste in my mouth. It’s bordering on, if not crossing the line of, bullying, akin to a child at school pulling the trousers down of another and then getting the whole school to point and laugh at them. Only you haven’t done it with facts in this case, but with an imaginary story specifically about another member. Rather ironic, really, given the title of the thread.
If you weren’t a moderator I would have reported the post. It should be beneath you. Disappointing to say the least. And whether Jan thinks it reasonably accurate or not is irrelevant. It is your motive for it that matters.
I get that you disagree with what he says, and with (what you think is) why he says it, but perhaps you should look at your own issues if you’d rather ridicule him than simply ignore him.