Oh shit. Once again, a bunch of (mostly) men, pontificating about a decision they'll never have to make.
Once again, I quote my wife (except that I've toned down the language for your sensitive eyes): "I'll give a flying fuck about what men think about abortion, the first time one of you assholes gets PREGNANT!"
You say you really care about children, that this is an an issue that concerns you, you're just all tied up in knots about the plight of the little motherfuckers?
Well then go out and do something to PROVE IT! Join the Big Brothers. Become a mentor. Become a teacher. Join one of the groups that tracks down and hounds men who abuse their children, abandon their children, or don't make their child support payments.
A warrior is a person who defends those who can't defend themselves. The world respects a warrior. But a warrior goes out and does things, he puts his life on the line for what he believes in. He stops men from hitting their children even though he might get hit himself. He stops women from screaming at their children even though our twisted laws might get him put in jail for assaulting her. He rats on men who get paid under the table to avoid being garnished for child support, even though he might run afoul of the local gangsters. He doesn't sit at home writing on his computer about something that for him can never be much more than a philosophical abstraction.
Hey, to the guy who occasionally shows up and bitches that his wife had an abortion and he was really torn up about it: Okay, you get half credit. I just wonder how supportive you would have been if she'd had the goddamned baby and it had made HER life miserable. Would you be out somewhere playing poker and telling all your buddies what a bitch your wife is?
Every woman I've ever met -- EVERY DAMN ONE OF THEM AND THAT'S A WHOLE BUNCH -- who decided to complete a pregnancy she was ambivalent about after being influenced by a man who insisted that it was "the right thing to do" -- is SINGLE!