Bells,
1. You have never grasped the concept of her need to know who she spread her legs for and allowed to join her family. Let's say he kidnapped her 9 yo daughter instead of raping her. She goes to the police and says that John Smith did it. They pull out all the photos of every John Smith they know ... every John Smith in the world, but he's not there because he's really Bill Jones. Now she's in the position of describing him physically —— as if he were a perfect stranger. Get it now??
Ah. And that is the issue for you, isn't it?
She "spread her legs" for another man. Therefore she must be held responsible for not knowing that that man was a paedophile.
You expect her to know something she could have no way of knowing. Absolutely none.
Effectively calling her a slut does not mean that she is guilty. She has done nothing wrong except fall in love. The authorities, who were monitoring him would have known and chose not to tell her.
But hey, for you, she's some kind of slut, so she should somehow be held accountable.
2. You need to back up your claims. The police knew this, they allowed that to happen, etc, etc. I have searched for more information on this story, but have found none. All articles on this repeat the same facts verbatim.
I see. I take it you missed this part of the article:
Police said those on the child protection register were required to tell police their address, where they work, travel plans, whether they have contact with children and the details of their car.
The commander of the sex crimes squad Detective Superintendent John Kerlatec said there was almost 100 per cent compliance with legislation.
Now, having said this, DOCS seemed to know he was a paedophile, living with her and had children in his care. How could they have known this?
3. Last I knew, you people live in a democracy. You people need to fix your problems.
"You people"? Who do you think you're speaking to?
You have effectively accused a woman who became involved with a man a slut, using words such as "spreading her legs". This has nothing to do with "democracy". What it does have a lot to do with is a Government Department that has failed terribly in the past and continues to fail. Horror stories from DOCS in NSW are now a monthly feature. This failure is not a one off and in most of the cases where they have consistently failed to protect the children, they have tried to either cover it up (to the point of using white out on documents) or blamed the parent, sometimes when the parent were not to blame.
Your version of fixing the problem is to ignore the total failure of DOCS and blame the mother.
You have consistently claimed that she could have gone to the police. But you have also consistently failed to realise that even if she had done so, the police would have no obligation to tell her. In face, they chose to not tell her. They told the guy's ex, but they chose to not tell her. Now, what this indicates quite clearly is that this man was being monitored (after all, if they went to the trouble of telling his ex, he was being monitored).
DOCS would have been made aware and they also chose to say nothing until it was too late.. which is almost to be expected from DOCS.
4. The article you referenced is incomplete and confusing. It cites more than one source, and it is very unclear as to the time line of events and who knew what and when.
Which article? I have provided plenty in this thread to show how DOCS consistently fails.
Now, can you tell me how DOCS would have known that he was a paedophile?
5. Now you're talking about other cases, again without references. So again, please provide references, otherwise, this is simply electronic gossip. I'm not saying these things don't happen or never happened, but you need to show that they do happen and did happen.
I have provided countless of links in this thread. They are the underlined bits in the posts. I would suggest you learn to click on it and read it before you accuse me failing to provide any sources.
6. Perhaps most importantly, tell us how what this woman can do to prevent such a thing from happening again.
There is nothing she can do to prevent it from happening again. What will prevent it from happening again is if the laws change and the police are then required to inform new partners.
I would have thought that would have been quite clear.
7. I am not clear on the concept that women think they can simply spread their legs for anyone and/or allow them to join their family, but it's up to the government to tell them all about the strangers in their midsts. This concept is very, very fuzzy for me. She wants to run her own life, but she wants to be a kept woman, of sorts — ie, have a safety net below her. This type of concept of life is adolescent, not adult.
It should be up to those in charge of monitoring sex offenders, to tell potential partners of said offenders that the individual is a sex offender.
Now, you seem to have this issue that this woman has had sex with another man outside of marriage. And you have decided to blame her for the Department's failure as a result of her having had sex, or as you quaintly put it, "spread her legs" and being a "kept woman". You obviously have some issues with women in general, if your comments in this thread are to be taken at face value.
The only safety net that would ensure this does not happen again is if the authorities are required to inform potential partners... Because at the moment, she could have married this man and nothing would have been said to her, because the law does not require such disclosure.